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About JolynnRaymond

Writer of historical paranormal romance, kinky historical romance, and BDSM Mistress and Sex Blogger. I hold the position of being one of Kinkly's Top 100 Sex Bloggers. Two of my books, Taken in Hand A Guide to Domestic Discipline and His Lordship's Wayward Wife, have been nominated as best BDSM Non Fiction and Best BDSM Historical books of the year. The awards ceremony will take place at the BDSM Writers Con in New York City this August.

Creating Balance in Your Domestic Discipline Relationship #WickedWednesday 26 comments

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Because the prompt for Wicked Wednesday was balance, I decided to repost this article which sums up the need for balance in any D/s relationship. The people who are involved in domestic discipline and power exchange relationships will often tell those who question their lifestyle choice that the addition of structure and discipline has brought them much closer. While there will always be naysayers and those who remain skeptical, those of us who live in these types of relationships will undoubtedly insist that it’s true. The act of giving guidance, creating structure, holding someone accountable, seeing to their every need including the need for discipline, creates a special bond. There are no long periods of resentment, unresolved anger, or holding on to things that fester and gnaw at a relationship. Issues arise, they are handled in a way that both people find not only acceptable, but desirable, and the problem […]

Inaugural Dungeon Crawl #OnYourKnees 22 comments

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  It’s our inaugural Dungeon Crawl, and crawl you will. {The Dungeon Crawl is inactive at the moment, all the posts are there for your reading pleasure.} This is more of a tease from Sweet Agony. Nicholas has Amelia on her stomach on a pillow, and he must punish her more before she can get what she wants. He couldn’t wait to fuck her, but first she had to be punished. Nicholas roughly fucked her bottom with the butt plug until Amelia was caught between whimpering in pain and moaning in pleasure. The nasty things he did to her, never ceased to drive her wild. The fact that she loved every one of them made her question her own sanity at times. Her whole world revolved around the delicious sensations he was creating in her body. Nicholas began to move the plug slowly, deeply, gently until she rocked her hips in rhythm, […]

Dungeon Crawl ~ BDSM Blog Hop

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What’s a Dungeon Crawl? Well, it’s like a blog hop, but we … crawl. Because it’s BDSM! We like dark dungeons. Whips and chains! Yes! WHEN: Every Wednesday. SIGNUP: Below (by Tuesday night at 11:59 PM Eastern time) WHY: Because you are a pervert with a hot BDSM related excerpt to show the world. RULES: Our only “rule” so far is that THERE ARE NO RULES. Safewords are optional. All are welcome. We do BDSM (yes, that definitely includes things like spanking, and domestic discipline too), as well as darker erotica (dubious consent and non-consensual consent are both welcome), and kinks like pony play, pet play, etc. We take romance, we take smut, we take smutty romance. Any time period, setting, or genre is welcome (Trent loves epic fantasy and alternate history settings, but you don’t have to cater to that weirdo). As long as it is BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) related, […]

The Act of Collaring 29 comments

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Beauty’s Collar and Wedding Ring The act of collaring one’s submissive or slave has many variations to some, and only one true way to others. Whether you find yourself in the meet today, collar tomorrow crowd, or the collaring is very serious business crowd, it is a subject and act that can spawn much debate. As always, my views are simply my views, expressed in a way that will hopefully educate and enlighten my readers. Your mileage may vary, in fact it should to some extent because the act of collaring is a very personal one. When I met my wife Beauty, I’d had several long term M/s relationships prior to her, but I never collared any of those ladies. While it’s true, they had a play collar worn during kinky play and jewelry that was special because it represented our relationship, they never received a collar. To be honest, I am […]

Great Reviews for the Connely Witches

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Over 500 years ago their ancestors pledged to protect mankind from the evils that walk among us. The Connelly family still abides by that oath, regardless of the cost. Read all the reviews here. by Jessica   This review is from: The Connelly Witches Series…Shattered Images and A Past Undone (Kindle Edition) Great story !! Well wrote and sucks you right in.. Love how it transitions from book one to book two would love to read the third novel with Isabelle by Bonnie We start off meeting Rachel-witch who has denied her powers to please her husband who is non-magical. Rachel is married to Michael and they have a pre-school daughter. They share a home with Rachel’s sister Raven and her partner Alex as well as Loisa. Rachel is very unhappy and her unhappiness invites in a powerful evil by the name of Syrull who feeds off of the misery of […]

Pain is Sweet & Agony Irresistible #SatSpanks

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Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Bloghop.  If you’re a reader who likes stories with with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you.  We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. This Saturday’s spanks comes from the story which gave the book its name. Sweet agony. Amelia can’t live without it, and Nicholas wouldn’t dream of making her. Like the other stories in the book, the short story, Sweet Agony focuses on a couple in the midst of BDSM play. Sometimes pain is sweet and agony irresistible, at least for a little while. Saturday Spanks excerpt: Nicholas picked up the paddle from the dresser and went to where Amelia lay trembling with fear and need, her skin a perfect unblemished canvas. He laid the paddle on her bottom and Amelia moaned. She had a […]

The Daddy/ babygirl Dynamic 30 comments

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The Daddy/ babygirl Dynamic This is the first of the guest posts I will be featuring on my blog in an effort to help others understand the dynamics of relationships or kinks people tend to misinterpret. My goal is not to spark debate, though polite comments are welcome. What I want is to increase our tolerance for things we don’t understand. This piece is written by a close friend, RWE. He has a great deal of experience with Daddy Dom/babygirl relationships, and was eager to share his knowledge in an effort to provide a clear and intelligent voice on this often misunderstood relationship.   Did You Call Him Daddy? First I would like to thank two dear friends of mine for giving me the opportunity to write and share my perspective and experience on endearing and beautiful relationship of Daddy/babygirl and its dynamics.  I want to make clear that this is […]

Our First Meeting and Kiss #WickedWednesday

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The prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday’s is firsts. I was commenting on another post of Southern Sir’s, and I started to explain how I first met Jolynn, so I thought that would be a good first. I started going on Fetlife about a year before I met Jolynn. I had discovered it by accident one day, and I’m thinking, that looks like it may be a good thing. Not like Alt or other adult social networks that I had tried before. In a different series of posts, I might tell about my adventures for that first year running free in the kink world. I still have all the emails from nearly four years ago now. So, it’s getting to be the end of summer, and I am ‘technically’ seeing someone, but I only get occasional calls or emails. First it’s once a week, then every two weeks, and then […]