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Why The Shame for Hard Limits? 1 comment

Why the Shame for Hard Limits? In the kink community, a limit is something you will not agree to in a BDSM interaction, and no responsible dominant or submissive should ever skip the conversation about what are serious limits when getting to know each other or planning to play. Limits are more than important, they are what define the edge of a person’s cravings and tolerance for BDSM play and roles. The concept of limits gets tossed around in the kink community all the time. Some dominants seem to think pushing past a submissive’s limits is akin to a challenge, and submissives often feel shame or a loss of value for what they won’t agree to do. Both are troubling to me. It doesn’t matter why something is a limit, and you shouldn’t have to explain yourself. If it makes you say no, it’s the end of conversation unless you […]


Domestic Discipline & Power Exchange Relationship Workshop ~ BDSM Writers Con 2015 #NYC 2 comments

Domestic Discipline and Power Exchange Relationship Workshop BDSM Writers Con NYC ~ August 21 – 23, 2015 Creating and Understanding Domestic Discipline and Power Exchange Relationships by Jolynn Raymond and Beauty’s Punishment This workshop will explore the ins and outs of my own personal, domestic discipline and power exchange relationships with my wife Beauty, my play partner, and my service submissives. I am the dominant and head of household in my marriage, as well as being the head of my kink family, and I will share exactly what that entails. I will emphasize on the dominant’s role and responsibilities in creating and maintaining either a DD or D/s relationship. Attendees will be walked through the topics of discussion that must be covered prior to any kink relationship, as well as how to set up the rules, routines, responsibilities, and punishments. All of these aspects take time to establish, and must suit each individual pair, […]


Violet Blue’s Ultimate Fantasy Blog Tour

Turn Your Fantasy into Reality Join the legions of couples and singles who are making their hottest sexual fantasies come true. Whether you’re looking for an endless supply of fantasy ideas or expert advice for a playful, imaginative sex life, this information-packed book will tell you exactly what you need to know. Forbes web-celeb Violet Blue has compiled comprehensive lists of the most popular fantasies and fetishes, complete with suggestions for props, toys, and costumes (and where to buy them). Blue takes a nuanced approach to helping you decide just how far to take your fantasies. Whatever your desires, The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy: How to Have Incredible Sex with Role Play, Sex Games, Erotic Massage, BDSM Play and Much, Much More will help you create the scenarios of your wildest dreams.   Discover how to: Uncover your lover’s secret fantasies Role-play without feeling silly Navigate your first threesome—where […]


Are Your Expectations Realistic? #Mistress 2 comments

Are Your Expectations Realistic? #Mistress   If all you expect when you go to a place to meet a potential person to date is sexy beautiful people, you’ll be disappointed. If all you expect is perfect weather when you go on vacation to the beach, you’ll be disappointed. If all you expect when you go to a chain restaurant is perfectly cooked gourmet food, you’ll be disappointed. If all you expect when you go to a BDSM munch is easy to lay submissive women, you’ll be disappointed. And if all you expect when seeking a dominant woman is the image above, you’ll be disappointed. The question and answer below is in response to an assignment I gave to one of the submissive men I am training. William is doing very well in my class on how to become a desirable submissive. The class is taught by my alter ego, Headmistress […]


Cover Reveal for Daddy’s Game by Normandie Alleman 1 comment

Daddy’s Game, Book Two in the Daddy’s Girl Series Football and kink collide when the game’s biggest star tries to convince a beautiful artist to play Daddy’s Game. Unofficial Blurb Sparks fly when up-and-coming artist Carmen Harris meets football star Natron Dakers at her first gallery opening. As they grow closer he introduces her to his particular brand of kink – he wants to be her Daddy Dom and make her his little girl submissive. She agrees, and they explore their passion through a variety of sexual games. Dallas Vipers’ wide receiver Natron Dakers is on top of the world. At the top of his profession, he has money, fame, and all the perks that go with it. Finally having found the perfect partner in his curvy little girl Carmen, his life feels complete. Until one day, in a split second, everything comes crashing down and it looks like he […]