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With Love to My Wife #BDSMrelationship 4 comments

Three years ago today I married my beautiful wife and bound her to me forever with love, with a ring, and with a collar. Today I say my vows again so I will remember my promises and never forget the feeling of great joy that I had on the day I made Beauty mine. These words I pledge again today and forever, my Beauty, my love. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ *I pledge my life unto yours. When you need strength I will offer mine. When you need words of encouragement I will listen and provide support. When you need solace and comfort and the silent speech of love, I will understand. I will place you in my heart today, before all others, and I pledge to work from this hour forward to make our commitment everlasting. Beauty, you are assertive yet gentle. You are stubborn yet yielding: you bend your will to my […]


Getting Ready For The First Spanking #SatSpanks 10 comments

USA Memorial Day is on May 26 this year.  Here’s wishing you a safe and happy weekend! Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Blog hop!  If you’re a reader who likes stories with with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you.  We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. This week’s snippet comes from my non-fiction book, Taken in Hand. It is a guide to creating and maintaining domestic discipline and power exchange relationships. The excerpt below is from the chapter on the inevitable first punishment which is something that can seem daunting to those who don’t practice BDSM as well as an element of discipline. There are 10 sentences, not eight. I apologize. I tried my best to whittle it down and was only semi successful. When speaking on a subject that can […]


Creating Balance in Your Domestic Discipline Relationship #WickedWednesday 26 comments

Because the prompt for Wicked Wednesday was balance, I decided to repost this article which sums up the need for balance in any D/s relationship. The people who are involved in domestic discipline and power exchange relationships will often tell those who question their lifestyle choice that the addition of structure and discipline has brought them much closer. While there will always be naysayers and those who remain skeptical, those of us who live in these types of relationships will undoubtedly insist that it’s true. The act of giving guidance, creating structure, holding someone accountable, seeing to their every need including the need for discipline, creates a special bond. There are no long periods of resentment, unresolved anger, or holding on to things that fester and gnaw at a relationship. Issues arise, they are handled in a way that both people find not only acceptable, but desirable, and the problem […]


Announcing Love Spanks 2014! Feb. 7-9th Blog Hop

When two grown-ups love each other, someone might get a spanking! How would you like a brand-new Kindle Fire or Nook HD or another prize from a pool valued at over $1,000? How about free stories from award-winning authors? This Valentine’s Day, you can participate in a short story extravaganza! F/F authors will showcase romance, paranormal, sci-fi, fantasy and spanking fiction for your enjoyment. Chat with your favorite authors, meet new-to-you authors, find great new books, and meet new friends! Want to become a Love Spanks ambassador and earn an extra prize entry? See below! Even better, participation could earn you a GRAND PRIZE! •Kindle Fire or Nook HD (winner’s choice)! (donated by Blushing Books) •Book cover plus author promotional package for one F/F book (donated by Fantasia Frog Designs) •Custom social media package for a F/F author (donated by The Cover Artisan) •Pre-publication consultation of a F/F manuscript up […]


Have you Rewarded Yourself For All Your Hard Work?

Now It’s Time For You Now that they’ve opened all their presents, it’s time for you to have one too. Give yourself a gift that will take you far away from all the stress and let you put those annoying relatives out of your mind. Find your escape with a novel by Jolynn Raymond All books available for instant download onto Kindle or PC and in paperback Kinky Historical Romance Lessons of Love Elizabeth’s Destiny Paranormal Historical Romance The Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy Taken Torn Treasured Paranormal Romance Shattered Images A Past Undone Set of both Connely Witches books BDSM Short Story Collections Sweet Agony Dark Obsessions Kinky Novella Dining In Non Fiction BDSM DD and Relationship Book Taken In Hand


Don’t Forget a Gift For Yourself

Now It’s Time For You Now that they’ve opened all their presents, it’s time for you to have one too. Give yourself a gift that will take you far away from all the stress and let you put those annoying relatives out of your mind. Find your escape with a novel by Jolynn Raymond All books available for instant download onto Kindle or PC and in paperback Kinky Historical Romance Lessons of Love Elizabeth’s Destiny Paranormal Historical Romance The Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy Taken Torn Treasured Paranormal Romance Shattered Images A Past Undone Set of both Connely Witches books BDSM Short Story Collections Sweet Agony Dark Obsessions Kinky Novella Dining In Non Fiction BDSM DD and Relationship Book Taken In Hand


Heat Up Their Holiday

Nothing heats up a cold winter’s night like kinky historical novels and BDSM short stories by Jolynn Raymond All Books available in paperback and ebook All books are age 18 plus Kinky Historical Romance Lessons of Love Elizabeth’s Destiny BDSM Short Story Collections Sweet Agony Dark Obsessions Kinky Novella Dining In Non Fiction BDSM DD and Relationship Book Taken In Hand


Creating Balance and Love in Your Domestic Discipline Relationship 7 comments

The people who are involved in domestic discipline and power exchange relationships will often tell those who question their lifestyle choice that the addition of structure and discipline has brought them much closer. While there will always be naysayers and those who remain skeptical, those of us who live in these types of relationships will undoubtedly insist that it’s true. The act of giving guidance, creating structure, holding someone accountable, seeing to their every need including the need for discipline, creates a special bond. There are no long periods of resentment, unresolved anger, or holding on to things that fester and gnaw at a relationship. Issues arise, they are handled in a way that both people find not only acceptable, but desirable, and the problem is laid to rest. Do DD couples argue? Actually no, my wife and I don’t. I give her a stern talking to in conjunction with any […]


Everything You Wanted to Know About Domestic Discipline and D/s Relationships 1 comment

Taken in Hand is now live and ready for purchase.  Click Here to begin your journey into BDSM, power exchange relationships and Domestic Discipline I have combined many of my Ask Jolynn Posts and added information to help you begin a quality stable domestic discipline relationship or explore the world of BDSM with factual information that will keep you safe and explain some of the ins and outs of BDSM. Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is an in-depth tutorial that takes the relationship past the simple act of discipline, to building a rock solid foundation that will ultimately create a deep bond of trust and love between those involved. Taken In Hand will guide those […]