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About JolynnRaymond

Writer of historical paranormal romance, kinky historical romance, and BDSM Mistress and Sex Blogger. I hold the position of being one of Kinkly's Top 100 Sex Bloggers. Two of my books, Taken in Hand A Guide to Domestic Discipline and His Lordship's Wayward Wife, have been nominated as best BDSM Non Fiction and Best BDSM Historical books of the year. The awards ceremony will take place at the BDSM Writers Con in New York City this August.

Figging In The Dungeon 19 comments

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It’s that time again for the Dungeon Crawl. Let’s get crawling! What do you get when you take one set of cotton split bloomers, a camisole, a sturdy rattan cane or birch bundle, and a freshly peeled knob of ginger for figging? Why Victorian role play of course. Role playing Victorian can be a delightfully kinky scene that involves funishment of a few different kinds. I always use my canes, have my submissive wear the pretty frilly set of split bloomers and camisole, and use figging as part of the ‘punishment’. The bloomers can be bought on Ebay. They are slit from front to back and are essentially two piece that are held together by a ribbon. They can be spread wide for a number of different fun and games. I like to use anal sex as part of the funishment. In the scene I like the Victorian young lady has been […]

Some Lessons are Hard

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Once upon a time is over rated, especially if you were a woman. If you were a woman, you were property. If you were a woman, you had no rights, only obligations. If you were a woman, your family chose who you would marry. If you were a woman, rape was shameful and an embarrassment. If you were a woman you were required to give your husband his marital rights… always. If you were a woman, your husband could discipline you in any way he saw fit. But… there were still some happily ever afters. With all of the things above stacked against you, it’s amazing that anyone found true love. Jolie was a young woman who had a cruel stepfather. Jolie was a woman who longed for someone to care for her. Jolie was a young woman who desperately wished to live a different life. And then she met Cole. […]

Want Domestic Discipline? #SpankedWife 4 comments

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  Taken in Hand: A Guide to Domestic Discipline, Power Exchange Relationships, and Related BDSM topics by Jolynn Raymond Maybe you’ve been curious about domestic discipline. Maybe you’ve already tried to add it to your relationship but have struggled to make it work. Maybe you need help with rules, routines, or ways to discipline. Maybe you just want to understand what domestic discipline and power exchange relationships are and if they might be right for you. You’ve got questions, I’ve got answers. From the first conversation to the first punishment and how to sustain a long term loving relationship, Taken in Hand is a comprehensive guide that covers it all. Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is […]

My Writing Process – Blog Tour

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    My muse can be the death of me or whisper ideas that take my mind on an incredible journey. The question often arises about how I write, so I figured this blog hop would shed a little light on my darkly twisted, often kinky, and wonderful Muse, and how I put onto paper what she whispers in my ear. First things first. I have been tagged in this blog by the wonderful and talented Sotia Lazu  I’ve known Sotia for a good while now and we both began to grow into the writers that we are around the same time. Her romances offer a good deal of heat, but also contain characters who are real. They make mistakes, they are far from perfect, and yet even with those flaws, they find love. I like her style because none of us are perfect and yet so many romances have a hero and heroine […]

Saturday Spanks ~ The Ballet #SatSpanks

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The following snippet is taken from the short story titled “The Ballet”. It is in my Jolynn Raymond’s Dark Obsessions book. Dark Obsessions is a collection of F/f erotic BDSM short stories.   All of the stories in Dark Obsessions stem from real life happenings in my life, therefore they are told as a narrative from my point of view. There is even a story staring Beauty, but that is for a different day. We come into the scene as Hannah and her Mistress are attending the ballet. They have what can best be described as  Mommy Mistress and babygirl relationship. Hannah has been fidgety all evening and her behavior has annoyed her Mistress. Her mistress does however, have just the thing for her wayward girl to help keep her focused on both the performance and the spanking she’s going to receive when she gets home. Hannah’s mistress has just removed a butt plug and a tube of Icy Hot from her […]

Daddy and Babygirl Relationships by Paul Rulof (RuleOfThree) 9 comments

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While we have had several other Daddy/babygirl posts, the subject seems to be popular, and I have had a number of quality guest posts offered up by those who practice this lifestyle, therefore I feel it is important to post all of them. I hope this post will offer even more insight into this kind of relationship. The Daddy/Babygirl relationship style is becoming more popular, but is frequently misunderstood in the alternative sexuality community.  Just like any relationship, the specifics are often different between couples, but I’ll tell you a little bit about me and my relationships. Daddies I am a Daddy Dominant.  By being a Daddy, I take a protecting, nurturing, caring, guiding, and disciplining role in relationships.   This makes me feel satisfied and happy. The Dominant part means that I largely shape or guide the relationship, offer the options, and am in control.  One of the most important traits […]

RTK Dungeon Crawl ~ BDSM Toys and Uses 18 comments

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  Today’s Dungeon Crawl is brought to you by Romancing The Kink’s Trent Evan’s and Sheri Savill. Okay everyone, gather round. It’s time for show and tell. I don’t know a dominant who doesn’t love to show off their toys. When we went to an event across the country, I couldn’t wait to show off the unique stuff I’d found there. Vending is a big part of most big kink events, and I find way too many things I want and usually give in to the urge to buy them. Some people spend money on skis, hunting stuff, sports equipment, or other hobbies, I love to collect and use BDSM toys. I am a sadist. That means I get a rush or thrill from giving pain. That actually doesn’t make me a bad person because I only give pain to people wh0 like it. I am quite willing to temper my hand and […]

What is That For?

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It’s time to crawl again, so get on your knees. Wednesday is Dungeon Crawl day. Floggers, paddles, canes, wands, what are those for and why do you have so many? My dungeon is full of toys. Tomorrow’s dungeon crawl will cover the types of toys and what they are for. I have lots of floggers, a wide variety of paddles, canes galore, and more. Why do I need so many, what the heck is that thing, and what are those pointy things for? Tune in tomorrow for an explanation of all things BDSM toys.