I Don’t Need A Man #MasturbationMonday 2 comments

I Don’t Need A Man #MasturbationMonday So for this Masturbation Monday, I’ve found a video by the Pussycat Dolls. I found the lyrics on Google Play so you can sing along with the Youtube video. Lyrics I see you looking at me Like I got something that’s for you And the way that you stare Don’t you dare ‘Cause I’m not about to Just give it all up to you ‘Cause there are some things I won’t do And I’m not afraid to tell you I don’t ever want to leave you confused The more you try The less I buy it And I don’t have to think it through You know if I’m into you I don’t need a man to make it happen I get off being free I don’t need a man to make me feel good I get off doing my thing I don’t need a […]

Plot Bunnies Running Through Your Head 2 comments

Plot Bunnies Running Through Your Head If you were a Plot Bunny, what would you look like? My wife uses that phrase, and I can picture rabbits jumping about in a thought bubble near her. If Jolynn needs a break from writing to try to get ideas, sometimes she will lay down in the dark like she is going to take a nap and has the sound machine on. Then she’ll pop back up after while and trot over to where I am to let me know that she’s going to write. Her special spot to write is in our bedroom sitting propped up in bed with the laptop and the cats on the bed with her. There is no talking at this time of course.  I’m curious what other writers Plot Bunnies look like in their mind. (I know it’s a weird question, but most creative people are a […]

Out With The Pet Peeves

Out With the Pet Peeves   We’ve made it to another year. It seems like just a while ago we were all preparing for Y2K. Times flies. It’s the truth. I have made a personal resolution, but that isn’t what this is about. This is a light-hearted look at my pet peeves. We all have them. Those things that drive us crazy, and yet everyone’s pet peeves are different. I think that it is a good thing when it comes to Beauty and I. Of course, we share some, but we also have ones that are vastly different, meaning when I simply am ready to explode or throttle someone, she is calm about it and vice versa, which helps us take a breath. I would love to hear some of my reader’s pet peeves. I think it’s fun to look at what makes others annoyed, only because it makes us […]

Consent, Age, and Personal Views

 Consent, Age, and Personal Views As most of us who are active in kink know, consent is EVERYTHING! I do not touch or become dominant towards anyone who has not verbally invited me to, has answered the question “Where can’t I touch you?” and has given consent to use a specified implement or have a play session involving X, Y, and Z. I also review the color system for play meaning green for keep going or more, yellow for I’m reaching the top of my tolerance, and red for stop right this second. In my book, only those who are able to make that sort of decision can only give consent. Be it a young age, a lack of being able to communicate because of a language barrier, being incapacitate by drugs or alcohol, not being human, still being in subspace from previous play, or not being able to repeat […]

Guest Post – Why Do You Think That’s Acceptable Behavior?

Why Do You Think That’s Acceptable Behavior? by Brittunculi   I really at this point shouldn’t be shocked by my inbox… …Yet I am I have men who are old enough to have lived life and experienced society and how it works sending me the most ridiculous messages. So I ask the question time and time again ‘Why do you think that’s acceptable behavior?’ Your fantasies might be great, but they’re yours. They have nothing to do with anyone else until they consent to engage in them with you. Your penis gives you no rights over a single female on this site. Have you tried the shit you pull at the supermarket? Why don’t you speak to a Police Officer that way? See how far that gets you. If you wouldn’t do it in public, you shouldn’t do it on this website. All I see when you send me those […]

My Annual Christmas Post – 2015

  My Annual Christmas Post And so it is time for my annual Christmas post. I have gifts to give, and this year I have one to take back as well. A lot has happened during 2015, some for good and some for bad, and we all know that the bad get a lump of coal. Seeing as how I am fresh out of coal, I will distribute my gifts as I see fit and that includes a few bad presents. To my beautiful wife, I give the gift of seeing herself through my eyes. Another year has been added to your birthday total, and I wish you could see the perfection I see when I look at you instead of what time has changed. Your eyes are full of expression. Love, trust, mirth and even sorrow come my way when you look at me. I see no lines, just […]

Elust #77 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of The Other Livvy Welcome to Elust #77 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #78? Start with the rules, come back January 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ On the Island of Mhowra Shoulder shaming? What becomes of the broken hearted…   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ You can hear it in my voice. Fingers – Please Fuck me With Just Them ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Don’t tell me sucking dick is easy All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this […]