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Guest Post on Bondage Pallet Wrap Style by Dominic and Princess

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Bondage Pallet Wrap Style by Dominic and Princess: Interviewed by Jolynn Raymond I recently had an opportunity to watch you play using pallet wrap and a large jungle gym type of structure. I really enjoyed what I saw. Your submissive look like a beautiful green dragonfly. I knew right away that I wanted to share my experience with my readers. Thank you for agreeing to this interview. I’m sure we will all learn a lot. **The term bottom refers to the person who is on the receiving end of the bondage. Pallet wrap is similar to Saran wrap but is rated to be load bearing and withstand tension. Do not use Saran wrap. ***The term Top refers to the person orchestrating the scene or doing the bondage in this case. **There will be an interview with both the Top – Dominic, and the bottom, Princess. Why pallet wrap? Because rope takes too long. Pallet […]

Elust #75 Is Here! #SexBloggers

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Photo courtesy of Kilted Wookie Welcome to Elust #75 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #76? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Is it hate? Am I a fraud? On Rape Fantasy Just Breathe   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ sex, surgery, celibacy Sex, Death, and Squirting ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* On Filth All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and […]

Still Kinky After All These Years 48 comments

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Lady Taya and Jud – {Not Jolynn in the picture} Disclaimer: The story below sprang forth from a dinner conversation. We have not attended the BDSM Writers Con. That adventure happens this summer. I am choosing that particular venue because we are strangers there, and have discussed the fact that the DMs will need to be spoken to. Still Kinky After All These Years We have an old guy. I’ve written about him before because he is such an important part of our lives. He’s part friend, part counsel to the Queen, part play partner, and all family. He’s our Loyal Lesbian, our occasional chauffeur, someone we laugh with, go places with, and worry about. He’s getting up there in years and has a wealth of information and life stories jam packed inside that grey haired head. Someday he and I are going to sit down and write his biography […]

Kink Toy Tuesday: Fifth Edition #Slapper 3 comments

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Hand Tooled Leather Slapper Last year at Thunder in The Mountains while shopping the vendors at the event, I spotted this at Master Mac’s booth. His store is called The Kink Shop and they are out of Shreveport, Louisiana. It is a hand tooled leather slapper made by a fella that made horse saddles for forty plus years. I happen to like leather slappers as we have multiple ones, but this one was really nice. Jolynn gives me a certain amount of money to spend there, and of course I have to make choices. This slapper was $60+ there. I had bought three soy candles, and a red rope scissors that I use in the kitchen. I actually have two in the kitchen and we have one in the dungeon area. You can never have too many since they are like $5. They cut right through Trout skin without mangling the fish. I also […]

Guest Post: Lord Katana Explains All About Floggers 1 comment

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Guest Post: Lord Katana Explains All About Floggers Today’s guest post is by Lord Katana. He is a good friend with a wonderful talent for making hand crafted floggers and other leather items. He made Beauty’s play cuffs, several of my favorite floggers, and my present last Christmas which was a belt/holster that has a holster for my neon wand and another holster for the Hitachi for hands free electric play and at ready fun during a play session. (Note, don’t grab the Hitachi before turning the wand off. Bad mix of electricity.) I asked him to share some of his expertise with my readers so they can learn to make informed decisions when buying toys, as well as learning how the different materials a flogger is made from can change the feel of play. Thank you for agreeing to share your expertise with us. Can you tell my readers […]

Aftercare and BDSM Play 94 comments

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Aftercare and BDSM Play I am a strong advocate of aftercare when engaging in BDSM play. What we do for recreation not only affects the body, but also affects the mind. Whether I play intimately with my wife, high impact with my play partner who is tough as nails, or am topping a friend who wishes to learn techniques or experience something new, I always provide aftercare. The only time I would not, would be if in the pre scene negotiations, and someone told me they wish to be left alone in their space. Even then, I wouldn’t feel it was just okay to put them out of my mind and I would make certain to learn what is their normal routine and usual activities after play. I will say right now that not every dominant or top believes in, or provides aftercare. Some feel, “Hey you, clean and put away […]

Today’s Saturday Kink Post… Real BDSM Play Scenes

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Today’s Saturday post doubles as self promotion. I wanted to bring my real life kink books to the forefront, because though I have written about kink, my role in it, play, relationships, titles, and the reality of how I live in a BDSM lifestyle, I think these books can give insight that an informational post cannot. I spend much of my time advertising my historical romances, but thought my books of BDSM short stories deserved a post of their own to remind my readers that they too are worth reading, and can help one understand the emotional, physical, safe and sane aspects of true BDSM scenes. Sweet Agony is a collection of M/f BDSM scenes and Dark Obsessions is a collection of F/f BDSM scenes. Both are compiled of fetish play I have actually done, and go from fairly mild to pretty hardcore. They include many aspects of kinky fetishes such as impact play (breast, flogging, spanking, whipping, lashing, paddling, pussy punishment, […]

From The Mailbag 2 comments

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From The Mailbag I received the following question from Chris, and thought it would make a good topic for my Saturday post. hi my name is chris, my gf likes pain and the whole bdsm concept, but im not sure on how to go about fulfilling that fantasy of hers. do u have any inexpensive (or slightly more expensive) tricks to spice things up in the bedroom? The first thing that is of importance is whether she finds the pain AND the power exchange appealing or if she just finds getting spanked delicious. Your approach to fulfilling her fantasy depends on what she finds fantasy worthy. As always, I advise that communicating is what should happen first. Find out if she likes the idea of you being the disciplinarian. The stern figure who will punish her because she really needs it and craves the control, or if she likes funishment spankings or […]

What’s In My Dungeon?

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Today I am going to address what’s in our play space here at home. Many of the things are simply geared towards my needs as a dominant/top/sadist, some are must haves, and then I am going to add a wish list and a list of things other tops or bottoms might find indispensable. Furniture A St Andrew’s Cross. This is my favorite piece. Ours is secured to the ceiling and is set about a foot and a half from the wall instead of being up against it. This allows me to move in front of Beauty if she is facing the wall. I can check in on her, give her water from a bottle with a straw, as well as have frontal access to her clit. I normally start with her facing outward so I can flog and cane her breasts, and flog between her legs, then turn her so I have full access […]