Hanky Panky ~ Spank Me #MasturbationMonday 4 comments

Hanky Panky ~ Spank Me #MasturbationMonday I was trying to think of something good for Masturbation Monday that would be good. I searched YouTube for sexy videos and kinky songs or something like that. I found this fun song from Madonna from 1990 called Hanky Panky and it has to do with spanking throughout the entire song. I found the lyrics if you want to sing along to the video. Lyrics To The Hanky Panky Song: Come over here Some girls they like candy and others they like to grind I’ll settle for the back of your hand somewhere on my behind Treat me like I’m a bad girl, even when I’m being good to you I don’t want you to thank me, you can just spank me Some guys like to sweet talk and others they like to tease Tie my hands behind my back and, ooh, I’m in […]


Elust #76 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Charlie in the Pool Welcome to Elust #76 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #75? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex and the post-birth vagina Lonely Things Just the two of us   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Tiny, shiny, bity snaps of steel… I have fallen in and out of love with myself   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* I had An Abortion All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest […]


Sinful Sunday ~ Under The Stars 18 comments

Sinful Sunday ~ Under The Stars I took this when we were on our Honeymoon this past summer of my lovely wife, and this is more than an eyeful of her in the bath. We had a few glasses of champagne and were warmed by the fireplace that was nearby. Just you never mind what happened next… Please visit the rest of the Sinful Sunday sexiness by clicking on the lips below. 😉


New Release: Her Web Master by Normandie Alleman 2 comments

New Release: Her Web Master by Normandie Alleman Genre: Erotic Romance/BDSM Word Count: 62,700   Available on Available at Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B01770ILLA and on Kindle Unlimited.        Introductory Price – $0.99 cents for a limited time!   An online connection. Masked by anonymity. No cameras. No pictures. Curiosity ignited to intrigue.   I thought I knew what I was getting into, but had no idea how far we would go…  My intention was to test the waters, dip my toe in the wading pool. Instead I surrendered to the world of seduction and submission as he submerged me–body, mind, and soul–into an ocean of eroticism.  Emails, texts, and hidden identities, were one thing. But now, coming face-to-face with the mystery man, the star of my fantasies, both terrifies and completely thrills me.  If all goes according to plan, he will intensify the exquisite bond we share by transporting me to that […]


When I Think About You I Touch Myself #MasturbationMonday 5 comments

When I Think About You I Touch Myself #MasturbationMonday Since I’m not the writer in the family, I’ll be putting up other things that make me think about Masturbation Monday. Today I have The Divinyls: When I Think About You I Touch Myself. We are taking the Wayback Machine to 1991 when the song came out. It’s sexy, but just a little cheesy. Close you eyes and listen to the music and it feels different not watching the video. Don’t forget to stop and visit the rest of the Masturbation Monday participants by clicking the purple button below. The music video was included in the movie Prelude To A Kiss starring Meg Ryan and Alec Baldwin in 1992. You can read the review and watch the trailer to the movie in the Showtimes section of the New York Times. 


Guest Post : Ashe Barker ~ Her Noble Lords #Spanking 2 comments

Guest Post : Ashe Barker ~ Her Noble Lords #Spanking Hi there, and thank you so much for inviting me over to share a bit from my latest release. Her Noble Lords is an erotic ménage story set in medieval England. It was a lot of fun to write, mainly because I was able to weave in so many of my favourite fantasies – abduction, not one but TWO hot knights with distinctly twitchy palms, a sassy damsel in distress, and of course a lot of spanking. You can grab a copy from :      Amazon US         Amazon UK        All Romance   Here’s the back cover stuff: After eighteen-year-old Linnet Routh is kidnapped from her home in Wellesworth castle by Ralf, the powerful, handsome Earl of Egremont, and his identical twin brother Piers, it quickly becomes clear to her that the seasoned warriors have mistaken her for someone else. Convinced that […]


Guest Post on Bondage Pallet Wrap Style by Dominic and Princess

Bondage Pallet Wrap Style by Dominic and Princess: Interviewed by Jolynn Raymond I recently had an opportunity to watch you play using pallet wrap and a large jungle gym type of structure. I really enjoyed what I saw. Your submissive look like a beautiful green dragonfly. I knew right away that I wanted to share my experience with my readers. Thank you for agreeing to this interview. I’m sure we will all learn a lot. **The term bottom refers to the person who is on the receiving end of the bondage. Pallet wrap is similar to Saran wrap but is rated to be load bearing and withstand tension. Do not use Saran wrap. ***The term Top refers to the person orchestrating the scene or doing the bondage in this case. **There will be an interview with both the Top – Dominic, and the bottom, Princess. Why pallet wrap? Because rope takes too long. Pallet […]


Subbie Tips and Tricks

Subbie Tips and Tricks I thought I would write something up weekly about Subbie Tips and Tricks I’ve learned to help other people that struggle to manage their day. I need all the help I can get because I squirrel and get distracted. Tip #1 There is an app for iPhone that is called Timer +. To get the most out of it you need to pay $2.99 to get the Time + Pro version. I was skeptical at first, but you can have multiple timers running at once to keep track of the things that you need to do. This is super handy for me since I can use it for a kitchen timer for different foods I am cooking and other things while I’m cooking.  I give this app two thumbs up.


Our New Ebay Store ~ jolynn_raymonds_bookstore 2 comments

Our New eBay Store ~ jolynn_raymonds_bookstore A place to find most anything, especially books to read and enjoy. If you’d like to read my blog covering topics of BDSM education, or read my kinky historical books, you can go to JolynnRaymond.com. Follow me on Twitter @JolynnRaymond So, I started up an eBay store for Jolynn a while ago and have been uploading pics of items that we have for sale. Some of it will be books, or gift baskets with books in them, and fun goodies to go in them. Some of it will also be clothes of ours that need to go to a new owner. Our closets are overflowing and stuff needs to migrate. You have two ladies and only so many closets to put things into. Check back often as I’m going to try to list at least one item a day.  You can find the store […]