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An Un-Collaring Ceremony

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This is written by Jennimal on Fetlife and re-posted with her permission. An Un-Collaring Ceremony  “I am safe,” I said, reaching back and unclasping my necklace. Sir and I had not an hour ago returned from a 4-day intensive M/s conference. We’d attended presentations and seminars by leaders in the leather community from all parts of the country. We’d listened and nodded along with their sage advice on topics ranging from establishing protocols to identifying the stages of an M/s relationship. We’d cried along with the heartfelt poignant anecdotes of the struggles some Masters and slaves had endured to get to the place they were. The very last presentation on spiritual M/s was the one that struck me to my core, and the one that impelled the confession I was now giving, kneeling at Sir’s feet. About a year ago, I was just getting out of a D/s poly triad that […]

Things I Need From You as My Submissive 17 comments

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This is a wonderful post. It is reposted with permission by: Author: Dr Dexter — [email protected] Source: https://fetlife.com/users/237461/posts/1285187 Things I Need From you as My Submissive I need you to feel safe. I need you to let go of your wants and desires, and know that I will to do what is best for you, when you give up control. I need your trust. I don’t expect you to give it blindly – I expect to earn it. But without trust, you cannot surrender. Without surrender, you cannot grow. I need you to feel secure. I need you to know that I’m not going to break your self-image without making sure that I build it back up stronger than before. I need you to accept comfort. Sometimes you may crumble. I will be there to pick up the pieces, and to pet you as we continue on. I need you […]

Dungeon Crawl ~ BDSM Blog Hop

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What’s a Dungeon Crawl? Well, it’s like a blog hop, but we … crawl. Because it’s BDSM! We like dark dungeons. Whips and chains! Yes! WHEN: Every Wednesday. SIGNUP: Below (by Tuesday night at 11:59 PM Eastern time) WHY: Because you are a pervert with a hot BDSM related excerpt to show the world. RULES: Our only “rule” so far is that THERE ARE NO RULES. Safewords are optional. All are welcome. We do BDSM (yes, that definitely includes things like spanking, and domestic discipline too), as well as darker erotica (dubious consent and non-consensual consent are both welcome), and kinks like pony play, pet play, etc. We take romance, we take smut, we take smutty romance. Any time period, setting, or genre is welcome (Trent loves epic fantasy and alternate history settings, but you don’t have to cater to that weirdo). As long as it is BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) related, […]

We Are Not Broken 20 comments

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A couple of weeks ago I clicked on an ad on Fetlife.com that wanted people to take a survey about their involvement in kink. Out of curiosity and hoping for a chance to open some eyes at whatever university was seeking the information, I went ahead with it. Page after page had questions about giving and receiving pain, liking humiliation, having multiple sex partners. Nearly every single question, which was multiple choice or providing a rating of 1 – 5, centered on past abuse, substance abuse, being sexually promiscuous, and assumed every kink or fetish they listed was tied to sex. I forged ahead, becoming disgusted, but being determined because of my hope that there would be a box for comments. In the end there was, and I really did my best to clear things up, but the whole thing left me angry and annoyed that this university of supposedly highly […]

Why You Should Accept “Those” Kinks 30 comments

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First I want to thank everyone who liked the BDSM and Aftercare post. It really took a great tour around the blogging world. It showed me that yes, Google’s new approach is working to get things out there, but those interested in kink and the importance of safety and knowledge do the job best. So again, thank you all for sending the Aftercare post hopping about. I have contacted several friends and invited them to write guest posts for this blog on subjects that I either have no experience with, or don’t feel I can speak in a voice that rings true. For those of us who live a kinky lifestyle, what we do, and who we are is part of the fabric woven into our lives. It doesn’t represent us, and it isn’t all there is to us, but it certainly is part of who we are. Along with […]

Guest Posts 2 comments

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I am in the process of setting up guest posts for my weekly BDSM articles. I have people lined up for the Daddy/babygirl relationship, CBT (cock and ball torture), as well as interviews with people who see themselves in the vastly different roles in BDSM. If you feel you’d have knowledge of a subject I haven’t written about, please write me at [email protected] No one knows about every aspect of kink, and I want to continue to educate my readers in as many subjects as possible.

The Naughty School Girl #SatSpanks 43 comments

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Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Bloghop.  If you’re a reader who likes stories with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you.  We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. I thought I’d change things up a bit this week. This snippet if from my BDSM Collection of Short Stories; Sweet Agony. The book has kinky short stories that a range from mild to heavy BDSM play. It’s not for everyone, but if you like play that involved more than a simple spanking, it might be for you. Michael and Sarah are engaging in a bit of super-hot role playing. She’s the naughty school girl and he the wicked Head Master. Both of them are highly aroused as Michael delivers a discipline spanking the naughty Sarah has earned. Over and over again Michael spanked […]

Have you Rewarded Yourself For All Your Hard Work?

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Now It’s Time For You Now that they’ve opened all their presents, it’s time for you to have one too. Give yourself a gift that will take you far away from all the stress and let you put those annoying relatives out of your mind. Find your escape with a novel by Jolynn Raymond All books available for instant download onto Kindle or PC and in paperback Kinky Historical Romance Lessons of Love Elizabeth’s Destiny Paranormal Historical Romance The Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy Taken Torn Treasured Paranormal Romance Shattered Images A Past Undone Set of both Connely Witches books BDSM Short Story Collections Sweet Agony Dark Obsessions Kinky Novella Dining In Non Fiction BDSM DD and Relationship Book Taken In Hand