BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives


Sound The Trumpets! All The Links Are Up For The BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archive

All the BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives are up and listed at the bottom of that page in just a raw HTMl link, but are clickable and will get you to what you want to read. I still need to put the posts in categories, and have the links with their actual titles and not just the raw links.   Take Me To The Archives


BDSM Rituals and Routines 7 comments

If you’ve been here before or read any of my posts in the BDSM archive, then you know I’m big on writing about the responsibility of the dominant’s role in any BDSM relationship be it domestic discipline, Master and slave, babygirl/Daddy, or whatever your dynamic. Dominant doesn’t mean you sit back and your slave or submissive does everything and you do nothing. It means you are taking on the responsibility for the life of another human being so you’d better be ready to work hard. If they are yours, you must care for them as they serve you. I’m also one who tells people if things aren’t going well, if your submissive is not obeying you, if your slave is acting out or your babygirl is having tantrums, then take a long look at yourself and the world or relationship you have established for the both of you. One of […]


Guest Post: Lord Katana Explains All About Floggers 1 comment

Guest Post: Lord Katana Explains All About Floggers Today’s guest post is by Lord Katana. He is a good friend with a wonderful talent for making hand crafted floggers and other leather items. He made Beauty’s play cuffs, several of my favorite floggers, and my present last Christmas which was a belt/holster that has a holster for my neon wand and another holster for the Hitachi for hands free electric play and at ready fun during a play session. (Note, don’t grab the Hitachi before turning the wand off. Bad mix of electricity.) I asked him to share some of his expertise with my readers so they can learn to make informed decisions when buying toys, as well as learning how the different materials a flogger is made from can change the feel of play. Thank you for agreeing to share your expertise with us. Can you tell my readers […]


RTK Dungeon Crawl ~ The Spanking Bench 12 comments

Welcome to this weeks Dungeon Crawl brought to you by Romancing The Kink, where kinky folks get together on Wednesdays and explore each others dungeons. The Spanking Bench People have been looking for a spanking bench and specs, so I thought I’d share pictures of how it was made. We had it custom made for Beauty to her measurements by Grandwood of Fetlife. He might be able to give you a better idea of how things were done.  Get crawling to visit the rest of the Dungeons to see what goodies they have in store for you. [inlinkz_linkup id=392704 mode=1]


Reflections: A Guest Post on Being Transgender 4 comments

I’ve only met Paige a couple of times, but my impressions of her were that she was very pretty and poised. Her post takes us from the first time she put on a dress, to the well-adjusted and confident person she is now. At the end she offers to help and support others in their quest to be accepted. Her journey to becoming a Transgender woman is worth reading. It will help those who are struggling find hope, and those who are not Transgender understand the courage it takes to face the world and be open about who you are no matter what.   Reflections by Sissy Paige Recently my wife suggested i take some time to write about components of my journey through life, recognizing that there may be others who are facing many of the same challenges i have and continue to face.  So, even if no one reads this, i’m going to take a stab […]


A Favorite Pony Post from Onyx and @piecesofjade 1 comment

A Favorite Pony Post from Onyx and @piecesofjade This has been a popular post that has people trotting over to visit Jolynn’s. A big thank you to Onyx and Jade of Kink and Poly for letting me put it out there to everyone. Those ponies on the Human Pony Tumblr just can’t get enough of Onyx. You can find their stable here.   Onyx ~ The Show Pony   Take a trot around our place and see what going on.


We Are Ethical ~ BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archive 2 comments

Originally posted January 26, 2013 If you came for the books and are disturbed by BDSM, by all means, skip this post! I thought a bit about this blog post before deciding to go ahead and do it. It’s not that I am ashamed in any way shape or form about my sexuality and kinky lifestyle, it’s because as a rule, I don’t think its okay to shove BDSM down the throat of those who would feel offended by it. That said, my involvement in BDSM isn’t exactly hidden on here, so I decided to choose the road that might lead to a better understanding of who we are. That popular book, you know the one, has a lot of misconceptions. For one, there isn’t a huge percentage of us who come from dark or abusive backgrounds or have hidden traumas, at least not more than the regular population. We […]


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So, now that I know what I’m doing, we’ll start over fresh. I am going to be re-publishing the BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives again since that’s one of the top things that people search for when they stop by. One night it took me two hours just to go through all the pages on the WordPress site and see what needs to be put where, and wrote it in a notebook that I keep by me on the end table in the living room. It’s our home office since everyone spends all their time here using the electronics and the printer while sitting quietly with the pets, or watching TV. Let the discipline begin and we’ll get started. Take off your shoes and get comfy on your couch and let’s go.

Beauty


Onyx the Show Pony ~ Jade’s Guest Post

  With Jade’s permission, she is letting me re-post her entry from the Madtown Kinkfest Fetish Pageant. Two times a year the event is held in Madison, normally February and July. The Fetish Pageant is the big thing to show off you and your talents/ fetish clothes. There is always a theme, and JMW is the hostess of that event. We did participate in one a couple years ago, and there are pictures, so maybe someday you’ll get to see them.  We already have our tickets and the hotel booked for the summer. Onyx the Show Pony Last year at this time, W, Ad and I attended MadtownKinkFest in Madison. We had a terrific time, and part of that was having the opportunity to participate in their annual Fetish Pageant. The idea is to show and explain a fetish of yours through your costuming – preferably as handmade as possible […]