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About JolynnRaymond

Writer of historical paranormal romance, kinky historical romance, and BDSM Mistress and Sex Blogger. I hold the position of being one of Kinkly's Top 100 Sex Bloggers. Two of my books, Taken in Hand A Guide to Domestic Discipline and His Lordship's Wayward Wife, have been nominated as best BDSM Non Fiction and Best BDSM Historical books of the year. The awards ceremony will take place at the BDSM Writers Con in New York City this August.


Still Kinky After All These Years 48 comments

Lady Taya and Jud – {Not Jolynn in the picture} Disclaimer: The story below sprang forth from a dinner conversation. We have not attended the BDSM Writers Con. That adventure happens this summer. I am choosing that particular venue because we are strangers there, and have discussed the fact that the DMs will need to be spoken to. Still Kinky After All These Years We have an old guy. I’ve written about him before because he is such an important part of our lives. He’s part friend, part counsel to the Queen, part play partner, and all family. He’s our Loyal Lesbian, our occasional chauffeur, someone we laugh with, go places with, and worry about. He’s getting up there in years and has a wealth of information and life stories jam packed inside that grey haired head. Someday he and I are going to sit down and write his biography […]


It’s A Major Award! #GoldenFlogger 14 comments

 It’s A Major Award! The Golden Flogger Award I am excited and thrilled to announce that Taken in Hand; my nonfiction book on domestic discipline and power exchange relationships is nominated for best Non-Fiction BDSM book of the year for 2015. The nomination is for the Golden Flogger Award, which recognizes the best BDSM books in both fiction and nonfiction. The awards ceremony will take place in New York City during the BDSM Writers Convention in August. This nomination feels wonderful, because Taken in Hand, was written to help people navigate the turbulent waters of D/s and DD relationships. I know how much communication and work any power exchange relationship involves because my wife and I live it every day. By sharing how Beauty and I do things, it is my intent to help others develop the structure that is so critical when creating and sustaining a D/s or DD […]


Merry, as in Christmas #WickedWednesday 8 comments

Merry, as in Christmas Merry grumbled as she got out of the sleigh on the roof of yet another upscale condominium, tugged at the hem of her cherry red liquid latex dress, and walked to the chimney, resigned to the fact it was going to be a long night. She’d drawn the short straw at the family gathering this year and won the oh so joyous job of taking care of all the naughty adults on her great Grandfather Christmas’ list. While it was true she wasn’t one who hated to dole out discipline when it was needed, the whining many of the ill mannered, obnoxious, and wealthy grown ups who scored a spot upon it did, was truly annoying. Most deserved to be there in spades and yet had serious issues taking responsibility for their bad choices. Giving the very short and sexy dress one more tug, Merry did […]


Letting The Sun In 5 comments

Letting the Sun In This isn’t going to be a post where I pull out my soapbox and stand tall spouting my opinions for all to see. Instead, I am entering the room and quietly sitting down, hoping my audience will listen because this is important. In the past, I have spoken about some personal issues and to be frank, they weren’t very well received. I think my readers expect my superhero sex blogger persona who takes people by the ear and says “Listen here!” Well my cape is at the cleaners, and frankly, I am opening myself up to being ignored, scorned, or ostracized, but I hope you will read my post anyway. Something started happening to me probably a good long time ago, longer than I can really put my finger on. I can’t say when it all began, but that doesn’t really matter. This thing silently creeps […]


His Lordship’s Wayward Wife: A Kinky Historical Romance #TheEnd #AmEditing 5 comments

Prologue England 1802   The library of the manor house held something far more alluring than books on the damp autumn afternoon. A fire blazed in a hearth crowned by a magnificent oil portrait of the Lord of the manor, chasing away the chill of the day. Blue white pipe smoke drifted through the air creating a richly scented haze that reflected off the glow of the lamps throughout, to provide ample light for each man there to see the others and their lovely playthings. The men, fifteen in all, were seated in large, exquisitely carved chairs arranged in a circle, and the women, fifteen as well knelt nude at their feet. Some were being absently stroked or played with, some simply stayed frozen in place at the side of their husbands. A number of women had nipples that were clamped, while others bore the marks of ownership left by […]


Censored? Never by My Own Hand #DarkErotic #BDSM 43 comments

Censored? Never by My Own Hand   Recently Amazon and the Powers That Be decided unexpectedly, that my book Elizabeth’s Destiny should be blocked. This is after having a nice run of approximately 18 months, selling well and being well received. My wife wrote a blog post about the headache and the turmoil the blocking of the book has caused as well as adding an email sent to me by Amazon effectively saying I was welcome to censor the book and resubmit it. The book’s storyline is about a missionary woman in India who is kidnapped, so she can be trained as a concubine in a harem of a man who enjoys BDSM. The book has dubious consent but not much. Elizabeth’s trainer, Maxwell, falls for her long before he hands her over, and when they have sex, she is willing. She is not so willing about the spankings, but […]


Your Vote Counts In Kinkly’s 2014 Sex Blogging Superhero Contest 8 comments

Kinkly is running the 2014 Sex Blogging Superhero Contest right now. Your vote counts! Have a favorite sex blogger you want to nominate? Here’s how it works: Find your favorite blogger in Kinkly’s Sex Blogger Directory. Now click on your favorite bloggers from the Sex Blogger Directory page and hit their Vote For Me button. Voting for the same blogger more than once won’t count – sorry, but feel free to vote for multiple blogs. For extra kudos, leave a comment on this article telling them why you might love a certain superhero blogger or include a link to any articles you thought were especially awesome over the last year. They’ll tally up the votes and read through ALL the blogs with the highest number of votes. (Hey someone’s gotta do the dirty work around here …) At the end of October Kinkly will announce the winners based on a […]


The Sexy Librarian’s Big Book of Erotica

Everyone’s favorite lusty librarian Rose Caraway has hunted through her private collection of erotica to select the perfect fantasy for every reader. The twenty two stories that fill The Sexy Librarians Big Book of Erotica range from explicit sci-fi to chilling horror to romantic fantasy, ensuring a lush and steamy read to satisfy any literary craving. Like a well stocked library, this anthology is full of endless possibilities, complete with it’s own card catalogue. Do you like your erotica organic? Try KD Grace‘s ‘Cherries In Season‘ from the Horticulture section. Or perhaps you are in the mood to relax with Olivia Archer‘s ‘The Perfect Massage‘, listed in Alternative Medicine. Featuring the works of such top eroticists as Rachel Kramer Bussel, DL King, and Kristina Wright, The Sexy Librarians Big Book of Erotica invites you to browse it’s pages and discover bookish treats to get your blood pumping. Excerpt from “Book […]


A Bit Gag, Long Reins, and a Burning Desire #MasturbationMonday 16 comments

    Today’s Masturbation Monday is compliments of my book Primal Cravings. How about a taste of nasty and rough anal sex? Gideon is schooling Olivia on the joys of anal sex, and this is her first lesson.   Primal Cravings: An Erotic BDSM Romance “Take a deep breath for me now and let it out slowly.” He moved his hand so he could hold her around the waist. He didn’t need to see where he was going, there was no doubt he was right where he wanted to be. Olivia took a deep breath and began to let it out. As she did, Gideon began to press forward, pushing slowly, opening her up, holding her hips still as her tiny anus began to stretch to accommodate his cock. She began to quiver, and then try to move forward, but Gideon had no intention of being denied entrance. As Olivia […]