Monthly Archives: March 2014

Change = Hysteria

This entry was posted in Jolynn Raymond on March 22, 2014 by JolynnRaymond

I love my wife, and I love her passion for a great blog that can do amazing things and be so much more interactive than this one. That said, I can’t do it. I hate change. Yes, I’m one of those people. Perhaps it comes with my dominant personality and the fact that I have zero control over the crazy that is Google and how it relates to my blogging. Beauty has worked tirelessly. She’s stayed up nights, been on the phone with support, cracked this code and that, and played with widgets and hash tags, all of which I could never do. Her hard work is not being tossed aside, I am just using this blog for now until things can be ironed out. Thank you Beauty, I love you and your dedication.

Being Sex Positive: Guest Post by The Kitty

This entry was posted in BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives Guest Post Jolynn Raymond on March 22, 2014 by JolynnRaymond (updated on November 25, 2015)

Are you sex positive or sex negative? Being Sex Positive: Guest Post by The Kitty Kitty is a person with an infectious personality. She is a very positive person who gives the vibe of let’s do what will be really great for everyone involved. She doesn’t shy away from things and is open to suggestions, and she truly cares about her play partners. She enjoys a number of different kinds of play that include but aren’t limited to strap-on play to blood play. This post talks more about the blood play than the strap-on, but it also talks about her forward thinking sex positive attitude. When discussing her kinks, Kitty talks about enjoying bloodplay, and while the focus is on her and her attitudes in general, it does include aspects of her kinks. That said, neither the writer of the post nor the hostess of the blog will be held liable […]

His Lordship’s Wayward Wife #CoverReveal

This entry was posted in BDSM Book Promo/ Sale New Release Spanking submissive wife on March 16, 2014 by JolynnRaymond

A new kinky historical romance by Jolynn Raymond Coming June of 2014 Claudia Stafford lived a life of luxury in Victorian England. She was a rebellious and spoilt girl who thought only of herself, treating those below her station with contempt. After discovering the power of her womanly charms, she used them to her every advantage, spurning any suitors her mother deemed appropriate, in favor of those who offered excitement regardless of scandal. When her father returns from his job overseas, her life is suddenly turned upside down. Married to an Earl and shipped across the country, Claudia find herself in the role of those whom she has disdained. She is expected to be subservient and obedient, and saying no brings consequences Claudia never dreamed of. As the wife of a man who belongs to a secret society that takes the role of the dominant husband to new heights, Claudia is expected to be submissive in all […]

e[lust] #56 Is Here!

This entry was posted in e[lust] on March 16, 2014 by JolynnRaymond

Photo courtesy of Understanding Flutterby Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #57? Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Trick of the Light What Does Porn Lead To The Posh Life of a Sex Toy Reviewer? ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Eleven Quarters Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Sadists ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ You really should consider adding your popular posts here too Its official: NatWest now censors academic work All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs […]

Hot Bottoms Can Melt Snow #SatSpanks

This entry was posted in Saturday Spankings on March 14, 2014 by JolynnRaymond

Today’s snippet comes from a short story I wrote a little while back for Winter Spanks. I’m planning on creating a book of short stories that are lighter on the kink and heavier on the domestic discipline in a F/f home like this one does. We find Lizzie and Jess standing in the snow near the car Jess has very recently driven off the road and down an embankment in a snowstorm. Jess had ventured out to get a special birthday present she’d ordered for Lizzie despite the fact that it was snowing like hell. She’d called Lizzie a little bit ago to come and get her after she’d plowed down the embankment and smashed the car, stopping just shy of the half frozen creek. To say Lizzie wasn’t pleased with the situation is putting it mildly. “Get out of the car Jess.” Knowing better than to defy her, Jess slid out from behind the wheel […]

So You Think You Might Be Kinky? Now What?

This entry was posted in BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives consensual dicipline relationship Jolynn Raymond Mistress on March 14, 2014 by JolynnRaymond (updated on October 22, 2015)

So You Think You Might Be Kinky? Now What? Think all this BDSM stuff looks wild, wicked, kind of scary, really sexy, and really interesting? Maybe you read that Shades book and it not only opened your eyes, but made you want to learn oh so much more about kinky relationships. Perhaps now you’re wondering just how to find factual information on kink, dominant and submissive relationships, fetishes, and how to turn curiosities into real life exploration. Taken in Hand could be the guide you are looking for. Want to learn about power exchange? Want to learn about domestic discipline? What to learn how to approach a Mistress? Want to learn how to be a dominant? Want to learn about munches and kink events? Want to learn about the interviews and checklists I give my new male submissives? What to learn about punishments and spankings? Want to get advice from someone who actually lives and practices BDSM […]

An Un-Collaring Ceremony

This entry was posted in BDSM BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives Jolynn Raymond Kinky & Popular on March 14, 2014 by BeautysPunishment (updated on April 19, 2014)

This is written by Jennimal on Fetlife and re-posted with her permission. An Un-Collaring Ceremony “I am safe,” I said, reaching back and unclasping my necklace. Sir and I had not an hour ago returned from a 4-day intensive M/s conference. We’d attended presentations and seminars by leaders in the leather community from all parts of the country. We’d listened and nodded along with their sage advice on topics ranging from establishing protocols to identifying the stages of an M/s relationship. We’d cried along with the heartfelt poignant anecdotes of the struggles some Masters and slaves had endured to get to the place they were. The very last presentation on spiritual M/s was the one that struck me to my core, and the one that impelled the confession I was now giving, kneeling at Sir’s feet. About a year ago, I was just getting out of a D/s poly triad that […]

Cherry Stem Book Blitz & Giveaway

This entry was posted in Author Spotlight Blog Hop Book Excerpt Giveaways Sotia Lazu on March 13, 2014 by BeautysPunishment

Cherry Stem Book Blitz and Giveaway Blurb Turned at the cusp of a promising career in the adult movie industry, Cherry Stem has to rely on her mesmerizing vampire gaze for her meals and money. With the rent deadline approaching, settling for pocket change isn’t an option, so she reluctantly decides to let tall, dark, and handsome Detective Alex Marsden take her home for the night and fulfill her needs. Only she gets more than she bargained for. When Cherry meets Alex, she expects him to be nothing more than another “girl meets boy, girl feeds from boy, girl erases boy’s memories” hook-up. Once missing young women, the vampire council, and her irresistible ex are thrown into the mix though, she realizes nothing is as simple or random as she thought it was. And Alex is either the biggest gift or the biggest mistake of her un-life. Excerpt Hiding […]

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