The Ignorance of Gender Intolerance 3 comments

  The Ignorance of Gender Intolerance The definition of tolerance in Webster’s Dictionary is: Willingness to accept feelings, habits, or beliefs that are different from your own. I think the idea of tolerance get a lot of lip service, especially in the kink community and in the twenty something crowd, but I’m not so sure this acceptance of feelings or habits different than yours has truly been embraced, even by those of us who consider themselves tolerant of others and their differences. My generation didn’t grow up truly being taught to be tolerant of people unlike ourselves. It was in my home, but that wasn’t the norm. My parents were front runners for their generation when it came to acceptance of those with a skin color that wasn’t white. We didn’t have African American kids bused to our school until I was in 3rd grade, and even then; they had a […]


A Submissive’s Point of View 3 comments

I saw this picture and statement a few days ago, posted by Michael Makai, and immediately loved it. In fact, I changed my avatar on Fetlife to this picture. I’ve read it over a number of times and have identified with it very strongly, but there is always a moment of pause because the part about being so damn good at it is really quite presumptuous. This train of thought sent me on a search to find out just what submissives think makes a great dominant, not what we dominants think makes us good. I know I have preached to my readers about how it isn’t easy to be dominant. I’ve listed a code of ethics, I’ve talked about not being selfish or thinking it’s all about you, but all of that has come from my own point of view, not that of someone who wears the shoe on the […]


Erotic and Kinky Stocking Stuffers

Now that Halloween is over the rush to the holidays will begin. Settle back and relax knowing you have a perfect stocking stuffer. Lessons of Love and Elizabeth’s Destiny  are sure to add some sizzle Give them to someone you’d love to spice things up with, or save them to savor on your own when you need some private time. Both Lessons of love and Elizabeth’s Destiny are available in bot ebook and paperback Order yours today Lessons of Love        Elizabeth’s Destiny Both by Jolynn Raymond


Thank you Readers!

A huge thanks to all my readers for nominating me as one of the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2013 What an honor! I pledge to continue being a wild woman and kinky blogger for all of you. If you have a topic request, please drop me a line.


What a Bunch of Crazy Fun!

I just want to say a huge thanks to my wife and the admins for this event. They work like mad rabbits as the games progress to make sure everyone is having fun and the games are fair. There was a huge amount of time spent planning this, making sure people had links to ALL of the author’s pages at least a week ahead of time so everyone could read and find out which author’s game they wanted to enter. They started to collect books way back in July. The fast pace has been almost overwhelming but they haven’t stopped because of the huge positive response. That’s 3 months of prep to make sure it runs smoothly. There has been hard work by all involved to ensure all information has been correct, fair, and fun. A special widget picks winners by random. There is no bias involved. So THANKS TO ALL […]


Patience Please

I ask for patience from my kink readers. I am very much aware that this blog has been somewhat neglected the past couple of weeks. Life takes crazy turns and there are only so many hours in a day. I am currently working on a new book about Domestic Discipline, dominance and submission, and power exchange relationships. This has cut into my time for blogging about kink issues. Beauty has been manning the book side of business in my absence, and I am aware that this blog has been almost exclusively  focused on my novels. There will be good things to come. I have not jumped ship!


That’s Amazing! Now You’ll Get One more Free Day

A Huge Thank You! The Connelly Witches Set is #4 on the Amazon Paranormal Occult Top 100 chart. Thant’s amazing! This was set for one more day. Can we hit #1 The two book set of A Past Undone and Shattered images are still through Monday free. Turn off your Monday blahs with a fast pace paranormal thriller   Click  here to down load the combined set from Amazon and start reading Shattered images right now You do not need to have read my Beneath the Shadows books to understand the storyline. There is also a family tree provided. Over five hundred years ago, Master Vampire Mikhal Arcos kidnapped a mystical Gypsy girl named Alliana. His intent was simple. He would use magic to make her bear him a son who would rule the world with him for eternity. He had every intention of discarding Alliana after his son was born, but […]


Congratulations and Thank You to My Winners in the Spooktacular

Congratulations to Lynn D. Janna W. and Pamala S. They were the winners in the find a castle picture for Jolynn Raymond Contest over at the Paranormal romance authors that Rock Spooktacular on Facebook. Each winner will receive an ebook copy of the Connelly Witches Set, a signed copy of Taken, and a signed bookmark. The games begin again at 7:00 central time tonight. There are plenty of great prizes from some amazing paranormal romance authors and fun games to be had so don’t miss out. Click here to join in the fun.