Creating Balance and Love in Your Domestic Discipline Relationship 7 comments

The people who are involved in domestic discipline and power exchange relationships will often tell those who question their lifestyle choice that the addition of structure and discipline has brought them much closer. While there will always be naysayers and those who remain skeptical, those of us who live in these types of relationships will undoubtedly insist that it’s true. The act of giving guidance, creating structure, holding someone accountable, seeing to their every need including the need for discipline, creates a special bond. There are no long periods of resentment, unresolved anger, or holding on to things that fester and gnaw at a relationship. Issues arise, they are handled in a way that both people find not only acceptable, but desirable, and the problem is laid to rest. Do DD couples argue? Actually no, my wife and I don’t. I give her a stern talking to in conjunction with any […]


Ana’s Advent Calendar 2013

Ana’s Advent Calendar 2013 {This list will be updated with more prizes as the month goes on. We are donating signed paperbacks for prizes; stay tuned for more.} Our prizes for a lucky winner will be: Elizabeth’s Destiny, Lessons of Love, and Dark Obsessions (US) and one Kindle book of winner’s choice!! Do you remember, if you were lucky, having an advent calendar as a child? The traditional kind had small, perforated paper windows to open for each day of December. Each day’s window revealed a small surprise. Usually it was a piece of chocolate or candy. I never had one, but I envied the children who did. Guess what? We’re going to have an Advent Calendar, but we’re going to do it my way! How will the advent calendar work, Ana style? There will be rules. Of course there will be rules. •Sign up! (Bonus point if you sign […]


Everything You Wanted to Know About Domestic Discipline and D/s Relationships 1 comment

Taken in Hand is now live and ready for purchase.  Click Here to begin your journey into BDSM, power exchange relationships and Domestic Discipline I have combined many of my Ask Jolynn Posts and added information to help you begin a quality stable domestic discipline relationship or explore the world of BDSM with factual information that will keep you safe and explain some of the ins and outs of BDSM. Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is an in-depth tutorial that takes the relationship past the simple act of discipline, to building a rock solid foundation that will ultimately create a deep bond of trust and love between those involved. Taken In Hand will guide those […]


Pssst… want a Great Gift Idea?

If you’re searching for a good book for a gift or to have for yourself when the whole holiday thing gets overwhelming, why not try a suspenseful paranormal romance? Shattered Images and A Past Undone have been put together to double your reading enjoyment. The books introduce the Connelly witches who are a family bound by a vow their ancestors made, to hunt down and destroy the evil that walks among us. Take a journey with them through time and dimensions as they fight demons and dark magic. It’s a wild ride, so strap yourself in and be ready for a heart pounding read. Shattered Images and A Past Undone… The Connelly Witches by Jolynn Raymond


Happy Spanksgiving

Now that the relatives are gone and the household is sleeping off their turkey induced stupor, why not curl up with a steamy bit of erotica? Lessons of Love  spins the tale of a southern belle forced into marriage with a heartless, but ever so handsome rogue who believes in disciplining his new bride. While Elizabeth’s Destiny takes you on a wild and kinky adventure in the harem of a grand palace in India. Both will serve up food for your kinky mind and help alleviate the stress that holidays with family can bring. Go ahead, indulge yourself in a steamy read that’s guaranteed to knock your socks off and give you very sweet dreams. Or, if you are looking for something with even more kink, all of my books can be found here. Jolynn Raymond’s Amazon page.


My Thankful Thoughts

Before the rush of relatives, the stress of juggling two families, and the inevitable dying for a nap after dinner but need to stay awake because we have company, I want to take a moment to reflect on those things I am thankful for. My wife. Without Beauty life would be lonely and dull. I can stand on my own two feet and face the world head on alone, but I never want to have to again. I am thankful for her love, devotion, intelligence, humor, beauty, companionship, compassion, submission, and ability to add serenity and comfort to my life. The ring on her finger symbolizes our union, the collar on her neck symbolizes our owning of each other. Never does a day go by that I would want her to be without either, and never a day goes by that I wouldn’t want her to be part of me. […]


Did Someone Say Anal? 4 comments

Did Someone Say Anal? It seems that the demand for information about play that includes anything anal is quickly growing. Anal sex and all things related to anal play is the last frontier for some and the oh so naughty addition of something kind of kinky for others. Regardless of the why, the hunger for facts is out there and so I will discuss the types of anal play and toys. This article will be written from a woman’s point of view and feeling. I don’t know much about the whole stimulating the prostate. Other than that aspect, I would think the basics still apply. Safety first: Make sure whatever you are deciding to use to insert into the anus has a flanged end. If something slips all the way inside, it can be very hard to get it back out without the aide of medical help. I prefer a […]


Everything You always Wanted to Know About Anal Play

It seems the need for information about anal paly is never ending. This weekend I will address this subject once more and talk about types of play other than anal sex. I’ll share pictures of my favorite, some uncommon, toys, explain butt plugs and how to use them, issues about being clean before hand, and what to expect. so all you anal fans tune in for a how to guide on everything anal.


Two Day Count Down Sale

Travel back to the very beginning Beginning Monday November 11th at 9:00, Taken… Beneath the Shadows of Evil Book One will be on sale for only .99 cents! But don’t wait long, Tuesday, November 12th the price goes up to $1.99, and by Wednesday Taken will be back to its full price of $3.95 Hurry before this sale ends Purchase Taken… Beneath the Shadows of Evil, here Taken is a dark love story set in the 1500’s of Hungary. It’s one that begins with terror and cruelty. Mikhal the Merciless is pure evil, a dark anti-hero who will fill you with loathing long before he catches your heart. The road to love for Alliana and Mikhal is a rocky one; and any roses that bloom, also pierce with thorns. You may well be wishing for Mikhal’s demise before you cheer them on to love, but you will cheer them on […]