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About JolynnRaymond

Writer of historical paranormal romance, kinky historical romance, and BDSM Mistress and Sex Blogger. I hold the position of being one of Kinkly's Top 100 Sex Bloggers. Two of my books, Taken in Hand A Guide to Domestic Discipline and His Lordship's Wayward Wife, have been nominated as best BDSM Non Fiction and Best BDSM Historical books of the year. The awards ceremony will take place at the BDSM Writers Con in New York City this August.


Jolie Hasn’t Learned Her Lesson Yet #SatSpanks

Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Blog hop!  If you’re a reader who likes stories with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you.  We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. ~~~~~~~~~~~ This week’s snippet comes from Lessons of Love once again. Cole is determined to tame his new bride, and this time he feels he’s succeeded, but only time will tell.       “I have been far too lenient. If I had punished you soundly last night this wouldn’t be necessary. You … are … to … remember … how … much … this … hurts … the … next … time … you … wish … to … be … disrespectful.” Each word was punctuated with a fall of his hand, and when he finally stopped, Jolie was sobbing and laying limp on his lap. He […]


New Guest Posts

New Guest Posts I wanted to say thank you to rdhdbtrfly  and to all my guest posters so far. They have opened themselves up in order to share the dynamics of their relationships. The newest guest post on polyamory by rdhdbtrfly explores relationships that buck the norm and are unconventional because they involve more that two people. I also want to thank my readers for being open to learning about how others do things. Everyone has been great, even if they may not feel the relationships presented are right for them. The overwhelming positive comments have been wonderful. The purpose of the guest posts is to educate and to increase tolerance, and that is just what is happening. Both my guest posters and my readers are showing me that we can learn and therefore better understand things that are different. I have an exciting line up of posts over the next couple of months and look forward to reading […]


Guest Post On Polyamory by rdhdbtrfly

Guest Post On Polyamory by rdhdbtrfly This is the fourth in the series of guest posts that we will be doing on this blog. I have never been in a poly relationship. My friend rdhdbtrfly (that is her Fetlife name) has lived in various polyamory relationships and is currently in one now, so she is a good source of information on the topic. These relationships are hard to make work because you are dealing with not two, but three or more personalities. People have many ideas about what poly is and what it means. The following article is from her point of view. Your mileage may vary. I will add my own comments at the end. Comments are encouraged, discussion is fabulous, anything bordering on rude will be deleted. Please respect the dynamic she has chosen for herself. Have an open mind, learn something new, and help spread the word about the very positive relationships […]


Dungeon Crawl #BDSM

To make this dungeon crawl a little more authentic We thought we’d share a little bit of our dungeon with our readers. Enter if you dare… But don’t say you weren’t warned! One of the things we like to do here is to have CFNM parties. What’s that you ask? Clothed Female, Nude Male It’s a fancy dinner party where each of our lady guests has her own naked male submissive servant. Yes really. We are served a formal dinner but then the fun really starts. We play party games. The pictures below are from what we call Deck the Dick Take one naked male servant and add craft supplies an wa la… A decked dick. I want no screaming about naked male anatomy you… have… been… warned… Avert your virgin eyes now. This is our gnome Gerome with the winner of the contest. We thought his lady did a great […]


I am a babygirl. I am a little girl. A daddy’s girl. 41 comments

This is the third in the series of guest posts that we will be doing on this blog. Cinnamon and Sparkles aka Phoenixasubbie talks about her relationship in DD/lg dynamic. It goes along with Kayla and John’s post on their relationship last Thursday. Comments are encouraged, discussion is fabulous, anything bordering on rude will be deleted. Please respect the dynamic she has chosen for herself. Have an open mind, learn something new, and help spread the word about the very positive relationships and aspects of BDSM. I am a babygirl. I am a little girl. A daddy’s girl. This is NOT age play for me. This is not role play. This isn’t something I do because I think it’s sexy and fun. (Although it is) There are age players who practice DD/lg, but like any other dynamic, we all do it differently. For me, this is who I am. I don’t have Daddy issues. I […]


My Interview with Jon Pressick From Sex in Words

This post should have the above title, but it should also have an added bit called The Truth About Gerome T. Gnome. Yes, the truth about our gnome better known as Gerome_the_Gnome on Fetlife has finally come out. Be prepared for some seriousness and some silliness, as I spill on the truth about Gerome, our gnome. You can see his Fetlife profile if you click above. Many thanks to Jon Pressick, both for doing the interview, and giving the okay to repost it here. Take time to check out his blog Sex in Words. He’s a well known sex blogger who has interesting articles and interviews on his site. Click here to take a peek. Below is my interview with Jon. 1. How did you get into sex blogging? I’ve been kinky for a good long time. I’m also a person who advocates getting out and meeting people in the local […]


And the Winners Are…

Tiffany and Elizabeth! The Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy Congratulations to Tiffany and Elizabeth. They are the winners in the Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy Trivia contest. You will each receive a signed set of the Beneath the Shadows of Evil, Taken, Torn, and Treasured in paperback (US only, non US will receive athorgraphed ebooks). Please send an email to [email protected] to claim your prize! Want to know more about the Paranormal Historical Romance Trilogy? Click here to look inside Taken,  book one of the trilogy.


Don’t Lose your Chance!

We are having malfunctions with the Rafflecopter, but you can still enter to win. Please send your  entry with the answers to the trivia contest to [email protected] We will pull two winners from a hat that has all the entrant names. Today is the last day you can enter to win a signed set of the Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy Want to win a signed set of the Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy; Taken, Torn, and Treasured by Jolynn Raymond?  Here’s your chance. Ms. Raymond has created a trivia contest for those who want to read her paranormal historical romance Trilogy. The questions have been selected from the look inside excerpt on Amazon from the first book of the trilogy, Beneath the Shadows of Evil… Taken. Two winners will be chosen by Rafflecopter from those who answer the questions correctly. The contest will run from February 1st through February 28th. Winners of the […]


Being Her Daddy / Being His babygirl 41 comments

Being Her Daddy/ Being His Babygirl This is the second in the series of guest posts that we will be doing on this blog every Thursday. John Brownstone and his babygirl Kayla explain how their dynamic works in a Daddy/ little girl relationship. I originally got the idea of doing guest posts from reading John’s article below from his blog, and asked Kayla if she could write a companion piece to go along with it. While last week’s post by RWE focused on his roll of Daddy, this piece tells both sides. Comments are encouraged, discussion is fabulous, anything bordering on rude will be deleted. Please respect the dynamic these two people have chosen for themselves. Have an open mind, learn something new, and help spread the word about the very positive relationships and aspects of BDSM. On Being Her Daddy I want to start out right from the beginning and tell […]