Yearly Archives: 2014

Sexy Recipes for Sunday ~ Devil’s Food Cake with Hazelnut Crunch #Delicious 2 comments

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Devil’s Food Cake with Hazelnut Crunch   INGREDIENTS Cake Nonstick vegetable oil spray 2 1/3 cups cake flour 1 cup natural unsweetened cocoa powder 1 1/2 teaspoons baking soda 1 teaspoon kosher salt 1/4 teaspoon baking powder 2 teaspoons instant espresso powder 1 cup hot coffee 1 cup buttermilk 2 1/2 cups sugar 1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter, room temperature 4 large eggs 1 large egg yolk 1 1/2 teaspoons vanilla extract 4 ounces semisweet or bittersweet chocolate (do not exceed 70%), melted, cooled slightly HAZELNUT CRUNCH 1/4 cup hazelnuts 2 ounces semisweet or bittersweet chocolate (do not exceed 70%), chopped 2 tablespoons (1/4 stick) unsalted butter 1/2 cup Nutella 3 cups toasted rice cereal FROSTING AND ASSEMBLY 8 ounces high-quality milk chocolate (such as Lindt or Scharffen Berger), chopped 8 ounces semisweet or bittersweet chocolate (do not exceed 61%), chopped 1 1/2 tablespoons light corn syrup 1 1/2 cups heavy cream 1 cup (2 sticks) chilled unsalted butter, cut into 1/2-inch pieces     CAKE Preheat oven to 350°. Coat the bottom and sides of cake pans with nonstick spray. Line bottom of pans with parchment-paper rounds; spray paper. Sift cake flour, cocoa powder, […]

Foot Fetish Friday ~ My First Foot Fetishist Experience 2 comments

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In the summer when was 18 or 19 years old, I met a fella who wanted to buy me a pair of high heels. I remember what he looked like, but sadly not his name. He was tall and good looking with a nice build. He also had dark brown wavy hair that wasn’t a short haircut, but a little longer. When he took me shopping he was nicely dressed in a dress shirt and slacks. Bakers Shoes was my favorite store for shoe shopping at Southridge Mall. I picked out a nice pair of black leather high heel shoes. I remember they were about $35 dollars and I kept the box for quite a while so they would stay nice. Before I can wear them out somewhere, the heels tips need to be replaced since they are worn down to the metal part inside the tips.  Every time I […]

My Love is Not About You #SameSexCouples 37 comments

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Beauty’s Picture To Me My Love is Not About You   Yesterday Joelle Casteel did a post that spoke about forcing our kink on others and people being accepting of what and who we are. I want to address the issue of public affection and how it’s okay for some people and very much not okay for others. Yes, that is my soapbox you hear being moved into position. So the thing that brought all this firestorm on the internet was the fact that a woman was walking her naked submissive on a leash in public. Folks chimed in from all sectors about the propriety of their actions. Some felt it was okay, but a large majority, myself included, felt that they had no business doing such a thing. The actions definitely fell under the umbrella of forcing their kink on others who did not give consent. Then the subject of […]

What’s Wrong With Just A Kiss? #SameSex 3 comments

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Joelle Casteel wrote a really good post yesterday on her blog. It’s titled Who is to judge if I’m non-consensually forcing my kink on others? She makes a lot of good points on multiple subjects in one post. In my post, I am mostly focusing on my ability to show affection to the person that I love in public, without people frowning at me or flipping their shit. We’ve had guys ogle us like the dude in the picture, which is their deal I guess. They’re not going to luck out and get to be in the middle, and go home with us to live out their fantasy in the bed though.   Here is my comment on Joelle’s post on her blog: With Jolynn and I, we don’t even hold hands or kiss when we are out with the general public. I’ve seen people, some being guys, frown at us. […]

Sexy Recipes for Sunday ~ Cherry Cocoa Almond Hand Pies #Delicious

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Cherry Cocoa-Almond Hand Pies {Trader Joe’s Recipes} 2 rolls (1 box) TJ’s Pie Crust, defrosted in fridge overnight 1 jar (about 2 cups) TJ’s Dark Morello Cherries, drained 1 tsp TJ’s Unbleached All Purpose Flour, plus more for rolling dough 3 Tbsp TJ’s Cocoa Almond Spread 1 large TJ’s Egg, beaten with 1 tsp Water 1/4 cup TJ’s Turbinado Sugar (optional for sanding tops) *You will also need a wide-mouthed jar or circular cookie cutter (3.5 in diameter = about 7 hand pies) Remove both pie crust rolls from refrigerator and let soften on counter (about 15 minutes). Once dough is softened, working in two batches, unroll and smooth together any cracks with your hands over the top of the plastic film of the dough. Remove plastic film and place dough onto a floured surface. Cut out 7 circles from one roll and 7 circles from the other (it could […]

Embracing My Curves, Clothing Optional #Naked 10 comments

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Embracing My Curves, Clothing Optional   So the plan was to write about our experiences at Madtown a few weeks ago, but time and other things got in the way of that. I still plan to refer to our time spent in Madison, but wanted to write this post for today because we larger gals need to know that loving our curves is okay. The first class we went to on our second day at Madtown is what I’m going to tell you about. It was on rope suspension, and called Fat Bottom Girls: A Guide to Being a Queen Size Rope Slut. It addressed the fact that big girls and many rope tops, think heavy gals can’t fly (aka be suspended). The instructor, Lucy the Slut, proved that this isn’t true and talked about our size fears getting in the way of what we want to do. On Fetlife […]

Ass To Mouth? Just Say No! #AnalSex 6 comments

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Ass to Mouth? Just Say No!   Normally I am one who will say that even if something isn’t my kink, you have every right to indulge in it as long as it doesn’t hurt me and mine, and it’s safe, sane and consensual. Today I have to speak up, because the activity lacks the safe component. What am I talking about? What could make me say oh hell no don’t do that? Is it knives? Is it fire? Is it fisting /footing with Big Foot? Nope, it’s ass to mouth play. The act of taking one’s cock out of someone’s ass and then putting it in their mouth or another orifice before washing. I am certain there are those who will argue that the rectum has good bacteria in it. The rectum is really quite clean, especially after an enema. The rectum can be made clean enough so there […]

SRR – Differentiating Between Punishment and Discipline 19 comments

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The following post is for the spanking round table discussion, and is written to help people differentiate between discipline and punishment in a power exchange relationship. Those who are new to BDSM or those who have engaged in kink but wish to move into a power exchange or domestic discipline relationship may often get hung up on when they are trying to figure out rules, routines, punishment, and fun BDSM play. I’m going to start with a basic definition for discipline, punishment and funishment. The three are different in many ways. but they are the same as well, because **All three things must be agreed on and must be based on consent by BOTH partners without coercion.** Discipline is the way in which my home is run and the structure that is at the base of my relationships within my BDSM kink family. The rules and routines vary quite a bit […]

Kink Toy Tuesday: Fifth Edition #Slapper 3 comments

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Hand Tooled Leather Slapper Last year at Thunder in The Mountains while shopping the vendors at the event, I spotted this at Master Mac’s booth. His store is called The Kink Shop and they are out of Shreveport, Louisiana. It is a hand tooled leather slapper made by a fella that made horse saddles for forty plus years. I happen to like leather slappers as we have multiple ones, but this one was really nice. Jolynn gives me a certain amount of money to spend there, and of course I have to make choices. This slapper was $60+ there. I had bought three soy candles, and a red rope scissors that I use in the kitchen. I actually have two in the kitchen and we have one in the dungeon area. You can never have too many since they are like $5. They cut right through Trout skin without mangling the fish. I also […]