SRR Roundtable Discussion

SRR – Differentiating Between Punishment and Discipline 19 comments

The following post is for the spanking round table discussion, and is written to help people differentiate between discipline and punishment in a power exchange relationship. Those who are new to BDSM or those who have engaged in kink but wish to move into a power exchange or domestic discipline relationship may often get hung up on when they are trying to figure out rules, routines, punishment, and fun BDSM play. I’m going to start with a basic definition for discipline, punishment and funishment. The three are different in many ways. but they are the same as well, because **All three things must be agreed on and must be based on consent by BOTH partners without coercion.** Discipline is the way in which my home is run and the structure that is at the base of my relationships within my BDSM kink family. The rules and routines vary quite a bit […]

SRR – Round Table Discussion: When Your Vanilla Partner Doesn’t Share Your Kink 23 comments

This weeks Spanking Romance Reviews {SRR} Roundtable Discussion topic is The Vanilla Spouse: When Your Significant Other Doesn’t Share Your Fetish.  It is being hosted by Katherine Deane. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Usually it’s Jolynn that tells you what’s what, but I had something to say about this as I’ve already lived it. So, long before I had met my husband I had already been reading all the books and magazines that I could get my hands on before I turned 18. I grew up in the 70’s when swinging and disco were big, and my Mom would take me to bookstores and I’d ask her if I could have a book. One book I snabbed was about swinging. I don’t remember the title, but I remember the color of the book. I trotted around the neighborhood reading it, and I thought that was interesting. I babysat for single ladies that went out […]