Monthly Archives: February 2014


Pain is Sweet & Agony Irresistible #SatSpanks

Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Bloghop.  If you’re a reader who likes stories with with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you.  We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. This Saturday’s spanks comes from the story which gave the book its name. Sweet agony. Amelia can’t live without it, and Nicholas wouldn’t dream of making her. Like the other stories in the book, the short story, Sweet Agony focuses on a couple in the midst of BDSM play. Sometimes pain is sweet and agony irresistible, at least for a little while. Saturday Spanks excerpt: Nicholas picked up the paddle from the dresser and went to where Amelia lay trembling with fear and need, her skin a perfect unblemished canvas. He laid the paddle on her bottom and Amelia moaned. She had a […]


The Daddy/ babygirl Dynamic 30 comments

The Daddy/ babygirl Dynamic This is the first of the guest posts I will be featuring on my blog in an effort to help others understand the dynamics of relationships or kinks people tend to misinterpret. My goal is not to spark debate, though polite comments are welcome. What I want is to increase our tolerance for things we don’t understand. This piece is written by a close friend, RWE. He has a great deal of experience with Daddy Dom/babygirl relationships, and was eager to share his knowledge in an effort to provide a clear and intelligent voice on this often misunderstood relationship.   Did You Call Him Daddy? First I would like to thank two dear friends of mine for giving me the opportunity to write and share my perspective and experience on endearing and beautiful relationship of Daddy/babygirl and its dynamics.  I want to make clear that this is […]


Our First Meeting and Kiss #WickedWednesday

The prompt this week for Wicked Wednesday’s is firsts. I was commenting on another post of Southern Sir’s, and I started to explain how I first met Jolynn, so I thought that would be a good first. I started going on Fetlife about a year before I met Jolynn. I had discovered it by accident one day, and I’m thinking, that looks like it may be a good thing. Not like Alt or other adult social networks that I had tried before. In a different series of posts, I might tell about my adventures for that first year running free in the kink world. I still have all the emails from nearly four years ago now. So, it’s getting to be the end of summer, and I am ‘technically’ seeing someone, but I only get occasional calls or emails. First it’s once a week, then every two weeks, and then […]


Vintage Spanking Photos

This is a classic vintage spanking photo. It holds a lot more charm for me than its modern day counterparts. As many of you know, I like to look at the search terms to find out what people are looking for. One that comes up fairly often is vintage spanking photos. Despite my love of history, I haven’t given much thought to vintage photos of spanking in days gone by, so I decided I’d do an image search, and lo and behold it turned up pages of old images which I have to say I find appealing. The picture above is interesting and erotic to me because of the clothing that has to be lifted, the cane is ever present and I love canes, and the knowledge that if she was bent over just a tiny bit more you would get a nice peek of her lady bits, and because I could easily build […]


Winners and Prizes of Events & Hops

Skye Warren’s Valentine Gift Hop Winners choice of an eBook from my books on Amazon Elise-Maria bn100 genuinesubgirl Tonya Ridener’s Release Party Tiffany K. — Signed set of Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy. Ashley, Cindy, Laura D., Erica S., and Pamijo P. won eBooks of Dining In. Love Spanks 2014 Blog Hop Sally — She was the winner of the book bundle for Ana’s Vitsky’s Love Spanks. Sally chose the Connelly Witches Series, Treasured (Book Three) of Beneath the Shadows of Evil, and Dark Obsessions. Conrats to Sally! CL Champlain & Rose Dewallvin’s Multi-Author Release Party Chris — Grand prize winner of the eBook set of Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy. Bonnie — an eBook of Torn (Book Two) of Beneath the Shadows of Evil. Terri — an eBook of Taken (Book One) of Beneath the Shadow of Evil. Tiffany K. — an eBook of Treasured (Book Three) of Beneath the […]


We Are Not Broken 20 comments

A couple of weeks ago I clicked on an ad on Fetlife.com that wanted people to take a survey about their involvement in kink. Out of curiosity and hoping for a chance to open some eyes at whatever university was seeking the information, I went ahead with it. Page after page had questions about giving and receiving pain, liking humiliation, having multiple sex partners. Nearly every single question, which was multiple choice or providing a rating of 1 – 5, centered on past abuse, substance abuse, being sexually promiscuous, and assumed every kink or fetish they listed was tied to sex. I forged ahead, becoming disgusted, but being determined because of my hope that there would be a box for comments. In the end there was, and I really did my best to clear things up, but the whole thing left me angry and annoyed that this university of supposedly highly […]


T.E. Ridener’s Release Party ~ February 16th

The Truth about Kadenburg Release Party Click Her Book To Buy It on Amazon The party is to celebrate the release of T.E. Ridener’s new book coming out the 14th. The Release Party will start Sunday the 16th at 10am EST and will run later into the night. Click here to get to the party!! Prizes you can win from great authors and bloggers are listed below. There will be author takeovers at scheduled times throughout the day.  Amazon author links are clickable by going to that authors name in the list. A few authors haven’t released their books yet, and links will be added when they do. Authors and Prizes This Sunday Book Friends Forever – Winner’s choice of eBook up to $1.99 value CL Champlain – 1 eBook of Fae of Lee- Saving, 1 eBook of From Scotland, With Love-Evi’s Story Alys B. Cohen – 1 eBook Megan C. Smith – 1 […]


e[lust]#55 is Here

Photo courtesy of Sex with Rose Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #56? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Why I Post Nude Photos (and blog about sex) Discovering Myself Through My Strap-On Sex Toy Shaming and Bigoted Wise Cracks, FTW! ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Aftercare and BDSM Play Two worlds ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Regulating Our Fantasies All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within […]


A Seductive and Savory Valentine Treat #DiningIn

  Mia struggled as she came through the back door balancing three full bags of groceries. She dropped her keys as one of the bags threatened to spill, tightening her arm around it, as she tried to swing the door shut. She growled in frustration, as the bags began to slip, then kicked the door closed behind her instead. She reached the table just as the paper sack clutched in her fingers ripped, sending oranges rolling across the floor. She dumped the rest of the bags on the table with a curse and a grimace, then gathered up the wayward fruit and quickly put the food away, finally spying the note resting on the kitchen counter. Her expression turned from a scowl to one of delight as she read Ethan’s instructions. Kitten,   Follow the trail of roses and read each message along the way. I have some surprises in […]