Jolynn Raymond

We Are Ethical ~ BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archive 2 comments

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Originally posted January 26, 2013 If you came for the books and are disturbed by BDSM, by all means, skip this post! I thought a bit about this blog post before deciding to go ahead and do it. It’s not that I am ashamed in any way shape or form about my sexuality and kinky lifestyle, it’s because as a rule, I don’t think its okay to shove BDSM down the throat of those who would feel offended by it. That said, my involvement in BDSM isn’t exactly hidden on here, so I decided to choose the road that might lead to a better understanding of who we are. That popular book, you know the one, has a lot of misconceptions. For one, there isn’t a huge percentage of us who come from dark or abusive backgrounds or have hidden traumas, at least not more than the regular population. We […]

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So, now that I know what I’m doing, we’ll start over fresh. I am going to be re-publishing the BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives again since that’s one of the top things that people search for when they stop by. One night it took me two hours just to go through all the pages on the WordPress site and see what needs to be put where, and wrote it in a notebook that I keep by me on the end table in the living room. It’s our home office since everyone spends all their time here using the electronics and the printer while sitting quietly with the pets, or watching TV. Let the discipline begin and we’ll get started. Take off your shoes and get comfy on your couch and let’s go.

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We’ll be open for business tomorrow 2 comments

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In the meantime, pop over to Jolynn’s Raymond’s WordPress to get crawling to the Dungeon. It’s a story about Beth and how she needs to make a decision about what implement is to be used as her punishment. It’ll be hot and spicy as usual, with a little of bit of Sweet Agony thrown in for good measure. You might find yourself having a little Sweet Agony and writing about in your diary over the weekend.

Dungeon Crawl ~ Beth and the Juicer #Decisions 7 comments

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  Today’s Dungeon Crawl comes from my M/f BDSM collection of short stories call Sweet Agony. This is from the story called Decisions. I wrote it because I have never in my life known a submissive who had an easy time making decisions, that’s one reason our roles complement each other so well. So, I came up with this little game because I’m evil and twisted like that. Decisions James stood watching her, the sneer on his face telling her plainly that he was not pleased. “I said make a choice, Beth. It’s simple really. You pick three and I pick three. After that, it’s all in my hands. No worries left for you.” The glint in his eye and the sinister tone of his voice let Beth know that there certainly were going to be worries after her decision, worries a plenty, but not of the usual kind. That […]

Onyx the Show Pony ~ Jade’s Guest Post

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  With Jade’s permission, she is letting me re-post her entry from the Madtown Kinkfest Fetish Pageant. Two times a year the event is held in Madison, normally February and July. The Fetish Pageant is the big thing to show off you and your talents/ fetish clothes. There is always a theme, and JMW is the hostess of that event. We did participate in one a couple years ago, and there are pictures, so maybe someday you’ll get to see them.  We already have our tickets and the hotel booked for the summer. Onyx the Show Pony Last year at this time, W, Ad and I attended MadtownKinkFest in Madison. We had a terrific time, and part of that was having the opportunity to participate in their annual Fetish Pageant. The idea is to show and explain a fetish of yours through your costuming – preferably as handmade as possible […]

Figging In The Dungeon 19 comments

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It’s that time again for the Dungeon Crawl. Let’s get crawling! What do you get when you take one set of cotton split bloomers, a camisole, a sturdy rattan cane or birch bundle, and a freshly peeled knob of ginger for figging? Why Victorian role play of course. Role playing Victorian can be a delightfully kinky scene that involves funishment of a few different kinds. I always use my canes, have my submissive wear the pretty frilly set of split bloomers and camisole, and use figging as part of the ‘punishment’. The bloomers can be bought on Ebay. They are slit from front to back and are essentially two piece that are held together by a ribbon. They can be spread wide for a number of different fun and games. I like to use anal sex as part of the funishment. In the scene I like the Victorian young lady has been […]

Daddy and Babygirl Relationships by Paul Rulof (RuleOfThree) 9 comments

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While we have had several other Daddy/babygirl posts, the subject seems to be popular, and I have had a number of quality guest posts offered up by those who practice this lifestyle, therefore I feel it is important to post all of them. I hope this post will offer even more insight into this kind of relationship. The Daddy/Babygirl relationship style is becoming more popular, but is frequently misunderstood in the alternative sexuality community.  Just like any relationship, the specifics are often different between couples, but I’ll tell you a little bit about me and my relationships. Daddies I am a Daddy Dominant.  By being a Daddy, I take a protecting, nurturing, caring, guiding, and disciplining role in relationships.   This makes me feel satisfied and happy. The Dominant part means that I largely shape or guide the relationship, offer the options, and am in control.  One of the most important traits […]

RTK Dungeon Crawl ~ BDSM Toys and Uses 18 comments

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  Today’s Dungeon Crawl is brought to you by Romancing The Kink’s Trent Evan’s and Sheri Savill. Okay everyone, gather round. It’s time for show and tell. I don’t know a dominant who doesn’t love to show off their toys. When we went to an event across the country, I couldn’t wait to show off the unique stuff I’d found there. Vending is a big part of most big kink events, and I find way too many things I want and usually give in to the urge to buy them. Some people spend money on skis, hunting stuff, sports equipment, or other hobbies, I love to collect and use BDSM toys. I am a sadist. That means I get a rush or thrill from giving pain. That actually doesn’t make me a bad person because I only give pain to people wh0 like it. I am quite willing to temper my hand and […]

What is That For?

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It’s time to crawl again, so get on your knees. Wednesday is Dungeon Crawl day. Floggers, paddles, canes, wands, what are those for and why do you have so many? My dungeon is full of toys. Tomorrow’s dungeon crawl will cover the types of toys and what they are for. I have lots of floggers, a wide variety of paddles, canes galore, and more. Why do I need so many, what the heck is that thing, and what are those pointy things for? Tune in tomorrow for an explanation of all things BDSM toys.