Jolynn Raymond


G is for Domestic Discipline Guide #SpankA2Z 4 comments

G is for Domestic Discipline Guide #SpankA2Z Today the G for Guide is referring to my book Taken in Hand: A Guide to Domestic Discipline, Power Exchange, and Related BDSM Topics. It is a guide to help those seeking to establish a domestic discipline relationship that includes spanking and the various D/s relationships that are part of BDSM. Beginning a dominant and submissive or domestic discipline relationship that involves disciplining your partner and taking or giving up control to one person can be scary, and any relationship can have pitfalls. It’s easier when you know what to look for as well as knowing that others struggle too. The book covers creating  rules, routines, reasonable punishments and when to punish, as well as how this type of relationship can help create a powerful bond between two people. Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long […]


Sexy Recipes for Sunday ~ French Toast With Orange Cream Mimosas 2 comments

Today’s recipe for Sexy Recipes on Sunday is Strawberry-Cream Cheese Stuffed French Toast. It had very good reviews and it looks pretty delicious. You need a good hour start to finish to make this, plus getting the goodies to make it with. If you pop over to Food Network and read the reviews folks left under the recipe, you can mix it up and try different variations of the recipe.  Mimosas might be good with this breakfast.  Strawberry-Cream Cheese Stuffed French Toast Total Time: 48 min Prep: 15 minInactive: 10 min Cook: 23 min Yield: 4 to 6 servings Level: Easy Ingredients: 2 eggs1/2 cup milk1/2 teaspoon granulated sugar8 ounces cream cheese12 slices white bread1 cup sliced fresh strawberriesButter, for cookingMaple syrup, for servingStrawberry Syrup, for serving, recipe followsConfectioners’ sugar, for servingStrawberry Syrup:3 cups sliced strawberries1 cup granulated sugarZest and juice of 1 lemon Directions:In a small bowl, whisk together the eggs, milk, and […]


Let Freedom Ring #SameSex Marriage in Wisconsin 4 comments

The picture above was taken at a ceremony that joined Beauty and I in marriage and in a D/s relationship where I placed a collar around her neck, showing my promise to hold and keep her, putting her first above all others for the rest if our lives. What it did not do, is legally marry us. We said the words from our hearts. We made promises of love and respect for each other in a ceremony full of vows and traditions, but though our friends and family recognized our union as marriage, we could not by law be wife and wife. I was born and raised in Wisconsin. It’s a beautiful state which contains one of my favorite place on Earth even though I’ve traveled all over the world. I truly do love my state despite the cold and snow and a governor who is a power hungry narrow […]


F ~ Is For Fetish #FootFetish 3 comments

Today F is for Fetish, and I have some shoe porn for the foot folks. See if you can guess who’s feet belong to me and which belong to Jolynn. Plus you get a little leg to look at also.  Jolynn has a previous post on Foot Fetishes that links to some very good information. It seem like the folks who are into feet don’t have the best option to find erotic books or movies. I splunked around Google and wasn’t impressed. Maybe those erotica author ladies could help out with that. I did find lots of Pininterest boards though.


WTF Fridays 2 comments

  Thanks to Em Petrova for letting me borrow her WTF Friday idea. Obviously this post with be for articles or items that make you go, “What the fuck?” Today’s WTF is brought to you by The Pogo Stick Fucking Machine. Prices vary from $64 + – $149. I am pretty open minded, but I’m not trying it out. I can see someone tripping and falling over and taking out an eye. On Talk Sex with Susan Johanson she demonstrates how it works. The video is a little fuzzy, but you get the idea. I used to watch her show all the time, but I don’t remember seeing that particular toy. {The page to load a video require Java Script, so you can always watch her on Youtube if it’s giving you issues.}


Guest Post ~ Secrets of My Loyal Lesbian 1 comment

  This week’s guest interview is with a man who has been in the kink scene and been double dipped in the wild waters of BDSM. He was around when the clubs in Chicago first came into being, has been in BDSM porn movies with Mistress Diamond of Chicago, has personally serviced some of the big name Dommes, won records for taking the most cane strokes on records day in Australia, and is also one of the most caring friend and play partner I have ever had.   His heavy masochistic ying perfectly complements my sadistic yang. He is the Major Domo at our CFNM parties, he walked my beautiful wife down the aisle to me so we could be married and I could place her collar around her neck for our lifetime, and he and I have so very much fun being ridiculous when we play. He is the […]


E ~ Is For Eeep! #SpankA2Z 3 comments

E – Eeep! – Eeep is the sound my darling wife makes when I find the special spots she has on the back of her calves and the bottoms of her feet. The stainless steel claws, the six wheel Wartenberg wheel, and my other sharp and pointies bring about such a delicious sound. I slowly trace my claw downward, starting on the inside of each thigh and then winding around and down ever so slowly over the back of her knee until EEEP! My favorite noise fills the air and she shivers, tossing her head from side to side until I begin slowly downward once more. I can’t help but let out just a bit of evil laughter. The funny thing is she loves my sharp and pointy toys. Eeep! You can find the page to their store for the claws here.


D ~ Is For Display #SpankA2Z 9 comments

D – Display – There is nothing lovelier than a well spanked bottom put on display. Paddle that naughty bum to a beautiful shade of crimson and then send your bad girl to the corner with her hands on her head and her panties lowered to just above the knees. If you make her spread her legs so they are tightly stretched, she will be even more aware that her panties are pulled down but very much still there. Go and see what the rest of the Spankers are up to.


C ~ Is For Carnal #SpankA2Z 10 comments

~~~~~~~~ C – Carnal – Those of us who have embraced our sexuality as a positive thing, have opened the door to so many more carnal pleasures than those who view sex, and our most primitive needs, as a bad thing. Just the word carnal conjures images in my brain. It speaks of things that are perhaps taboo to those who feel sex is something wicked or shameful. Embrace your carnal urges, set them free and explore. Practice safe sex, keep things consensual at all times, and learn about what it is you wish to do before jumping in head first. I hope this blog challenge will become something that both stimulates and sparks creative urges. Explore your sexuality from A – anal to Z – zap (electrical play), and spice up your life in both the bedroom and in your relationships. Take notes, pencil in new things to learn […]