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Blog Hop Interview – Tag You’re It!

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  I was tagged for this blog post by the wonderful Sotia Lazu. Thank you! What are you working on right now? I have a series of books that feature the Connelly Witches. They are the magical descendants of the vampire and Gypsy in my paranormal historical novels Beneath the Shadows of Evil. The family made a vow to protect mankind from the evil that walks among us. Battling demons of course has its pitfalls and leads them on many adventures.  I am offering both books in the series at a low price running this month. The books are stand alone but you can better understand the history aspect if you start with Shattered Images. I worked yesterday to make a really nice family tree but couldn’t get the format to work! So now there is a family history list at the start. It tells who is who and who […]

Dragging Out my Soapbox on Domestic Discipline 2 comments

This entry was posted in BDSM BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives Jolynn Raymond TiH on by (updated on )

Dragging Out my Soapbox on Domestic Discipline This post has been removed. It is now contained in the book you see above which will be available on Amazon December 2nd, 2013. I apologize for any inconvenience, but I have chosen to combine some of my posts into a book on Domestic discipline. Blurb from Taken in Hand Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is an in-depth tutorial that takes the relationship past the simple act of discipline, to building a rock solid foundation that will ultimately create a deep bond of trust and love between those involved. Taken In Hand will guide those interested in adding consensual domestic discipline, dominance and submission, and structure to their […]

BDSM For Dummies or BDSM Made Simple 4 comments

This entry was posted in BDSM BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives Jolynn Raymond on by (updated on )

A friend of mine (Thanks Sunny) posted a link to this article over on Facebook. It is an excellent guide for new submissives. This is a must read so you are well armed when you meet a new dominant either online or preparing to meet them in person. A high percentage of online Doms are fakes. This guide will help you weed through the pretenders and save you some heartache. The author is listed as unknown, but the blog looks like an excellent place for information. BDSM For Dummies; BDSM Made Simple My thanks to Sunny Megatron for steering me to this blog. I also suggest looking Sunny up on Facebook. She posts excellent information that includes sexual well being, things that are just plain funny, how to’s for BDSM and sex, and the schedule for events she hosts. She is knowledgeable and funny in person and does a great job teaching live about BDSM. We […]

What’s In My Dungeon?

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Today I am going to address what’s in our play space here at home. Many of the things are simply geared towards my needs as a dominant/top/sadist, some are must haves, and then I am going to add a wish list and a list of things other tops or bottoms might find indispensable. Furniture A St Andrew’s Cross. This is my favorite piece. Ours is secured to the ceiling and is set about a foot and a half from the wall instead of being up against it. This allows me to move in front of Beauty if she is facing the wall. I can check in on her, give her water from a bottle with a straw, as well as have frontal access to her clit. I normally start with her facing outward so I can flog and cane her breasts, and flog between her legs, then turn her so I have full access […]

Are You Curious?

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Have you ever wondered just how I came to be involved in writing kinky historical fiction and erotic BDSM? Well the answer to that question and more can be found in my author interview on BDSM Book Reviews. The interview gives some insight into how I came to write the genre I do and what my BDSM lifestyle is like. So if you are curious to learn a few things about me, click away. Click here to find out!  

We Are Ethical 2 comments

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We Are Ethical If you came for the books and are disturbed by BDSM, by all means, skip this post! I thought a bit about this blog post before deciding to go ahead and do it. It’s not that I am ashamed in any way shape or form about my sexuality and kinky lifestyle, it’s because as a rule, I don’t think it’s okay to shove BDSM down the throat of those who would feel offended by it. That said, my involvement in BDSM isn’t exactly hidden on here, so I decided to choose the road that might lead to a better understanding of who we are. That popular book, you know the one, has a lot of misconceptions. For one, there isn’t a huge percentage of us who come from dark or abusive backgrounds or have hidden traumas, at least not more than the regular population. We aren’t immoral, […]

We Have a BDSM Question ABout Me!

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We Have a BDSM Question ABout Me! Well my wife seems to think people might want to know the how and why of my decision to take on the role of a Mistress in the BDSM lifestyle. I think perhaps that is something better written about in the Ask Jolynn section of this blog. Those who wanted to know can find out all about it by clicking on the link for Ask Jolynn. Hum… this morning I guess it will be coffee and the story of allowing my dark side to run free.

Ask Jolynn…

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In the near future I will be starting up a sort of Dear Abbey/Miss Manners advice column for questions about BDSM kinks, play, and relationships. I don’t claim to know all by any means, but have been active in kink for over ten years and am involved in my local kink community. I am still learning, and I have good resources in the way of a network of people who know a lot about various different BDSM subjects. I’d like to open this up so people can reach out and ask things without fear of discovery or ridicule. It is possible that I will use the letters and questions in a non fiction BDSM book in the future. Of course I would seek permission from those who ask me and people will stay anonymous. So I’d love to hear from people. … When I get the Ask Jolynn part working […]