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Off To a Kinky Convention

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Beauty and I are off to a lovely kink/fetish convention so my post An Anal Sex Tutorial and my answer to the submissive wanting help with her punishment will have to be considered the weekly posting of BDSM topics. We have a busy schedule of kinky classes, I want to learn fire play among other things, and three full nights of huge dungeon play. These events are very fun. You get to really be yourself with other kinky people for a few days, but they are also tiring. I will post if time permits. We are taking the small computer, but I won’t make any promises. When we come home I will post about our adventures. We have to finish packing. It super hard to fit dungeon toys, fetish outfits including shoes, regular clothes, aftercare supplies, and so on into two suitcases! Have a good two weeks my lovely readers, […]

A Question From Ask Jolynn 2 comments

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This came from yesterday’s mailbag   So as apart of my punishment my Dom wants me to post and figure out what my punishment for breaking the rules should be so if you could help me fulfill this assignment it would be very helpful. I was granted permission to visit family on my own out of town and missed four check ins and mouthed off while I was there and was disrespectful to my Dom and when I got back I received my punishment but even then so I wasn’t thinking and took my collar off without asking first, and I was to turn in a assignment when I got back of all the things I had done while I was gone that I needed to be punished for and I didn’t so now my Dom wants me to decide my punishments and I am to ask for help on what it should be and I can’t […]

Anal Sex Tutorial 18 comments

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Anal Sex Tutorial/ How to introduce Anal Sex   **Author’s Note** ~ I have been getting a bit of a backlash about this post from some quarters, so I felt the need to clear some things up. To those who say the author obviously has never had anal sex. I have both been on the receiving end and the giving end. I’ve had it be painful and a oh hell no experience as well as a love this give me more experience. To those who are screaming about the use of anti bacterial wipes. I don’t mean cleaning wipes. I am referring to Wet Ones. They are a handy and  effective way to cut down on the bacteria that may be present when doing anal play. .As for the use of gloves, yes, that is an option and yes, a condom is also a must if you are not fluid bonded with […]

Respecting Other’s Kink 1 comment

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Respecting Other’s Kink Beauty and I are going to a major kink event in a couple of weeks. You see and experience all kinds of things at these events, much of which might make you squeamish or wondering how anyone could do that. I’ve been around the block now for more years than I will admit to, but one thing that doesn’t seem to change, is the disrespect some people show to others about their chosen kink. We spend a lot of time dealing with the show respect in BDSM. You are to respect your dominant. You are to respect your submissive’s limits. You are to respect someone’s safe word. Show respect by not touching something (people and toys) that belongs to someone else. Show respect for people’s D/s relationship by refraining from sticking your nose into their dynamic. The list could go on, but you get my point. So […]

Dragging Out my Soapbox on Domestic Discipline 2 comments

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Dragging Out my Soapbox on Domestic Discipline This post has been removed. It is now contained in the book you see above which will be available on Amazon December 2nd, 2013. I apologize for any inconvenience, but I have chosen to combine some of my posts into a book on Domestic discipline. Blurb from Taken in Hand Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is an in-depth tutorial that takes the relationship past the simple act of discipline, to building a rock solid foundation that will ultimately create a deep bond of trust and love between those involved. Taken In Hand will guide those interested in adding consensual domestic discipline, dominance and submission, and structure to their […]

If You Want to Know More About Foot and Shoe Fetishes

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If You Want to Know More About Foot and Shoe Fetishes You’ve all heard about people having a foot fetish. What exactly does that mean and more curious is why? We all have our own things that make us excited or aroused, but feet are a strong turn on for many. Foot massages are a must at any of my CFNM parties and they are enjoyed both by the receiver and the giver.  This works out well because I love to have my feet rubbed! From high heels to feet in stockings, to being allowed to suck, massage, or paint toes, those into feet have many things to love. Click below if you want to learn more.   Tell me more about having a foot fetish!    

The Idea of the Submissive Slut

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This post has been removed. It is now contained in the book you see above which will be available on Amazon December 2nd, 2013. I apologize for any inconvenience, but I have chosen to combine some of my posts into a book on Domestic discipline. Blurb from Taken in Hand Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is an in-depth tutorial that takes the relationship past the simple act of discipline, to building a rock solid foundation that will ultimately create a deep bond of trust and love between those involved. Taken In Hand will guide those interested in adding consensual domestic discipline, dominance and submission, and structure to their own relationship through the initial steps of […]

BDSM For Dummies or BDSM Made Simple 4 comments

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A friend of mine (Thanks Sunny) posted a link to this article over on Facebook. It is an excellent guide for new submissives. This is a must read so you are well armed when you meet a new dominant either online or preparing to meet them in person. A high percentage of online Doms are fakes. This guide will help you weed through the pretenders and save you some heartache. The author is listed as unknown, but the blog looks like an excellent place for information. BDSM For Dummies; BDSM Made Simple My thanks to Sunny Megatron for steering me to this blog. I also suggest looking Sunny up on Facebook. She posts excellent information that includes sexual well being, things that are just plain funny, how to’s for BDSM and sex, and the schedule for events she hosts. She is knowledgeable and funny in person and does a great job teaching live about BDSM. We […]