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About JolynnRaymond

Writer of historical paranormal romance, kinky historical romance, and BDSM Mistress and Sex Blogger. I hold the position of being one of Kinkly's Top 100 Sex Bloggers. Two of my books, Taken in Hand A Guide to Domestic Discipline and His Lordship's Wayward Wife, have been nominated as best BDSM Non Fiction and Best BDSM Historical books of the year. The awards ceremony will take place at the BDSM Writers Con in New York City this August.

Getting Back To Business

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Let’s get back to the business of books and kinkiness. Be sure to check out Kitty’s post on being sex positive, and then find a steamy book to curl up with Want to learn about all things kink? We’ve got that in the BDSM Archives Want to read a kinky paranormal romance? We’ve got that. Want to read a historical paranormal romance? We’ve got that. Want a book that will tell you how to create a domestic discipline or power exchange relationship? We’ve go that too. What to read about real BDSM scenes in a collection of short stories? Sweet Agony Dark Obsessions F/f BDSM Short Stories Want to be titillated or educated about kink? Come and explore the world Jolynn Raymond’s Dark Obsessions Yes, kink is as wicked and wonderful as it looks!

Change = Hysteria

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I love my wife, and I love her passion for a great blog that can do amazing things and be so much more interactive than this one. That said, I can’t do it. I hate change. Yes, I’m one of those people. Perhaps it comes with my dominant personality and the fact that I have zero control over the crazy that is Google and how it relates to my blogging. Beauty has worked tirelessly. She’s stayed up nights, been on the phone with support, cracked this code and that, and played with widgets and hash tags, all of which I could never do. Her hard work is not being tossed aside, I am just using this blog for now until things can be ironed out. Thank you Beauty, I love you and your dedication.

Being Sex Positive: Guest Post by The Kitty

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Are you sex positive or sex negative? Being Sex Positive: Guest Post by The Kitty Kitty is a person with an infectious personality. She is a very positive person who gives the vibe of let’s do what will be really great for everyone involved. She doesn’t shy away from things and is open to suggestions, and she truly cares about her play partners. She enjoys a number of different kinds of play that include but aren’t limited to strap-on play to blood play. This post talks more about the blood play than the strap-on, but it also talks about her forward thinking sex positive attitude. When discussing her kinks, Kitty talks about enjoying bloodplay, and while the focus is on her and her attitudes in general, it does include aspects of her kinks. That said, neither the writer of the post nor the hostess of the blog will be held liable […]

His Lordship’s Wayward Wife #CoverReveal

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A new kinky historical romance by Jolynn Raymond Coming June of 2014 Claudia Stafford lived a life of luxury in Victorian England. She was a rebellious and spoilt girl who thought only of herself, treating those below her station with contempt. After discovering the power of her womanly charms, she used them to her every advantage, spurning any suitors her mother deemed appropriate, in favor of those who offered excitement regardless of scandal. When her father returns from his job overseas, her life is suddenly turned upside down. Married to an Earl and shipped across the country, Claudia find herself in the role of those whom she has disdained. She is expected to be subservient and obedient, and saying no brings consequences Claudia never dreamed of. As the wife of a man who belongs to a secret society that takes the role of the dominant husband to new heights, Claudia is expected to be submissive in all […]

e[lust] #56 Is Here!

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Photo courtesy of Understanding Flutterby Welcome to e[lust] – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #57? Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Trick of the Light What Does Porn Lead To The Posh Life of a Sex Toy Reviewer? ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Eleven Quarters Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Sadists ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ You really should consider adding your popular posts here too Its official: NatWest now censors academic work All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs […]

Hot Bottoms Can Melt Snow #SatSpanks

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Today’s snippet comes from a short story I wrote a little while back for Winter Spanks. I’m planning on creating a book of short stories that are lighter on the kink and heavier on the domestic discipline in a F/f home like this one does. We find Lizzie and Jess standing in the snow near the car Jess has very recently driven off the road and down an embankment in a snowstorm. Jess had ventured out to get a special birthday present she’d ordered for Lizzie despite the fact that it was snowing like hell. She’d called Lizzie a little bit ago to come and get her after she’d plowed down the embankment and smashed the car, stopping just shy of the half frozen creek. To say Lizzie wasn’t pleased with the situation is putting it mildly. “Get out of the car Jess.” Knowing better than to defy her, Jess slid out from behind the wheel […]

So You Think You Might Be Kinky? Now What?

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So You Think You Might Be Kinky? Now What? Think all this BDSM stuff looks wild, wicked, kind of scary, really sexy, and really interesting? Maybe you read that Shades book and it not only opened your eyes, but made you want to learn oh so much more about kinky relationships. Perhaps now you’re wondering just how to find factual information on kink, dominant and submissive relationships, fetishes, and how to turn curiosities into real life exploration. Taken in Hand could be the guide you are looking for. Want to learn about power exchange? Want to learn about domestic discipline? What to learn how to approach a Mistress? Want to learn how to be a dominant? Want to learn about munches and kink events? Want to learn about the interviews and checklists I give my new male submissives? What to learn about punishments and spankings? Want to get advice from someone who actually lives and practices BDSM […]

Guest Post: Trust, BDSM, and Fear Play 14 comments

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TRUST and BDSM {Trust, BDSM, and Fear Play} This article is written by a good friend. I like to think that our minds are similarly twisted though I’m sure he is at least a little bit more devious than I am because he plays with the mind as much as the body. I asked him to write a guest post because I know that the of the type of play he does requires his partner to have absolute faith in him. He is going to speak on trust, consensual non-consent, fear play, and just why on earth his submissive would agree to give up so much of what most of us, even those into BDSM want to have a say in. What I’m talking about is the right to stop, whether by safeword or other words and actions, something that makes us feel like our self preservation is threatened. This article is being […]

Things I Need From You as My Submissive 17 comments

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This is a wonderful post. It is reposted with permission by: Author: Dr Dexter — [email protected] Source: https://fetlife.com/users/237461/posts/1285187 Things I Need From you as My Submissive I need you to feel safe. I need you to let go of your wants and desires, and know that I will to do what is best for you, when you give up control. I need your trust. I don’t expect you to give it blindly – I expect to earn it. But without trust, you cannot surrender. Without surrender, you cannot grow. I need you to feel secure. I need you to know that I’m not going to break your self-image without making sure that I build it back up stronger than before. I need you to accept comfort. Sometimes you may crumble. I will be there to pick up the pieces, and to pet you as we continue on. I need you […]