Jolynn Raymond BeautysPunishment


About BeautysPunishment

Once a wild brat that couldn’t be tamed, I have been in a 24/7 DD, D/s relationship since July 14, 2011. We had a collaring ceremony lead by Mistress Joanne and attended by friends. I’m only submissive to Jolynn. Every day I run our business, and anything else so Jolynn can write her books in peace and quiet when she has time. I am the housewife, secretary, publicist, pet parent, and doer of good deeds, squirrel, and fueled by caffeine. Redbull gives me wings to fly through the internets. It is my drink of choice, and it's what's for breakfast. I tend to put my foot in mouth, and will say things without thinking; so if I offend anyone, it's not intentional. I am blunt and to the point, and don't have an inner monologue. According to Jolynn, I don’t have an off button. She keeps trying to find it on the top of my head. I have an off the wall sense of humor; more often than not I am impulsive, a little loud, and sometimes obnoxious. But that's just me.


Elust #71 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of The Shingle Beach Welcome to Elust #71 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #72? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Backyard Glory Bra Wars Versions of Ourselves ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Disabled characters: who do I write them for? How Can You Think About Sex Right Now? ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Three All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo […]


Beauty’s Book Review ~ Best Lesbian Erotica 2015 ~ Edited by Laura Antinou

Vanilla to Kink, the Sultry and the Sordid Best Lesbian Erotica 2015 ~ Edited by Laura Antinou Beauty’s Book Review As always, my opinion is my own and a paperback of the Best Lesbian Erotica 2015 was given to me by the good folks at Cleis Press. I started reading lesbian erotica regularly when I was in my twenties, and had two big stacks of books on and around my night stand just filled with lesbian anthologies, as I would read in bed. I liked Laura Antoniou’s introduction to the book telling of her first call for submissions twenty years ago. You actually had to put an ad in the paper, have authors write letters with their submission included, or use the phone to let people know what was needed. No internets for you then. The first sight I had of any computer with some sort of ‘internet’ connection was […]


J.M. Dabney’s Club Revenge Book Tour

J.M. Dabney’s Club Revenge Book Tour Thank you Jolynn for letting me share my novel with you today. Club Revenge (Dysfunction at its Finest, Book 1) is a Dark Fantasy Paranormal with hints of horror. I primarily write Lesbian Fiction/Romance, yet I enjoy writing the darker and sometimes gorier stories. In CR I was able to let my love of carnage and inappropriate humor off the leash. This book along with the others to follow are the stories I’ve always wanted to tell. The Medina-Jackyl family made me cry, maniacally cackle and roll my eyes. The Asylum Residents aka The Family forgot I’m supposed to be the Warden as they tended to take over—outlines be damned. In CR layers are peeled back, exposing depths of pain, rage, and love until it reveals all their secrets. Contained within the pages of CR exist conspiracy theories, Dark Age prophesies, cults, shifters, vampires, […]


A Collection of Posts Explaining The Daddy/ lg/ Babygirl Dynamic #AdultSexEdMonth 9 comments

A Collection of Posts Explaining The Daddy/ lg/ Babygirl Dynamic #AdultSexEdMonth  The Daddy/ babygirl Dynamic This piece is written by a close friend, RWE. He has a great deal of experience with Daddy Dom/babygirl relationships, and was eager to share his knowledge in an effort to provide a clear and intelligent voice on this often misunderstood relationship. Being Her Daddy/ Being His babygirl  John Brownstone and his babygirl Kayla explain how their dynamic works in a Daddy/ little girl relationship. I originally got the idea of doing guest posts from reading John’s article from his blog, and asked Kayla if she could write a companion piece to go along with it. RWE‘s post focused on his roll of Daddy, this piece tells both sides.  Daddy and Babygirl Relationships by Paul Rulof (Rule of Three) While we have had several other Daddy/babygirl posts, the subject seems to be popular, and I have had […]


Adult Sex Ed Month Here For Its Third Year! #AdultSexEdMonth

Adult Sex Ed Month (#AdultSexEdMonth) is here for its third year this June! #AdultSexEdMonth is a social media campaign during the month of June to share educational and informational blog posts, articles, videos, podcasts and infographics about adult sex on Twitter and Facebook with the hashtag #AdultSexEdMonth. So why is #AdultSexEdMonth a big deal? Most adults are uninformed about the basics of sex, let alone things like consent, safer sex practices, techniques and the kinky stuff. It’s not that people are stupid, but we can’t know what we haven’t been taught. The sex education we were taught in high school was lousy. For most people having sex is like getting behind the wheel of a car and never have taken a driver’s training course. Why can’t I just look for what I’m curious about on Google? Good luck! The credible information about adult sex ed information is usually buried deep in the bowels of […]


Hop Against Homophobia, Bi- and Transphobia 2015 10 comments

Hop Against Homophobia, Bi- and Transphobia 2015   Today, May 17th, is the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia. Groups around the world will be celebrating the day in various ways and you can follow it all through the IDAHOT page: http://www.dayagainsthomophobia.org/ We, 118 writers, publishers, reviewers, cover designers, and other people involved in the making of LGBT books, want to make an effort as well by sharing messages with our readers and other blog visitors. This is the hop’s fourth year, and in our prior years we’ve had huge success in reaching a diverse group of people around the globe. We’ve decided to do it again, because there’s no sense messing with success, right? We encourage you to visit all the hop locations. There will be an LGBT-related prize at each stop. Click the link below to go visit the hop website. Hop Against Homophobia, Bi- and Transphobia […]


Elust #70 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Exposing 40 Welcome to Elust #70 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #71? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Exposed! My Mom Knows! Flash Fiction: “A Taste” I am a Sex Blogger & I Reject Pseudonymity ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ ‘X’ is for X… Give my guilt an erotic payoff? Tell me more. ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Dis-moi… All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs […]


Why I Must Have Daily Lists and Rules #WickedWednesday 6 comments

Why I Must Have Daily Lists and Rules #WickedWednesday Every Saturday Marie Rebelle emails people that have signed up for email notifications, the prompt for the upcoming Wicked Wednesday post. The prompt this week is lists. Why must I have a daily, weekly, and monthly list? When my drug resistant depression is really bad I have problems remembering things I need to do. All I want to do is sleep and not be a person. Last July I had a med combo change to see if that would help any. It has, but I have problems the next day if I was up to all hours squirreling around on the internet. Other times I forget to do something because I went to do something else, and forgot what I was originally doing. My being in menopause does not help it either so, Jolynn keeps updated rules and she changes them […]


Beauty’s Book Review: Better Sex In No Time by Josey Vogels

Better Sex In No Time by Josey Vogels ~ An Illustrated Guide for Busy Couples  Beauty’s Book Review Disclaimer: As usual my opinion is always my own for my book reviews. A paperback book was given to me by the good folks at Cleis Press so I could read in comfort and not stare at a screen; ie: my iPad. So to start, I have never read anything by Josey Vogels, so I wasn’t sure of her writing style and if the book would appeal to me since it is more aimed at male/ female pairings. Also that couple might be super busy with work and kids, and they did a lot of texting and emailing to keep in touch besides Twittering at each other. Her Amazon Author page is not as complete as her search results on Amazon, so you need to check back to keep up with what she […]