Yearly Archives: 2014


Kink Toy Tuesday 8 comments

  It’s our first ever kinky toy Tuesday. Today I offer up for your inspection a solid impact toy made from repurposed tires. The handles is enhance with beautiful rope work and the business end is 8″ long and 4 ” wide. It delivers a very sound smack and leaves a sting that the one you are spanking will feel for a good while. Both side can be used, but the tread side of course would leave the most interesting bruising if your partner likes to admire their marks. This toy is guaranteed to get their attention and as an add bonus helps save the Earth by putting old tires to use. Now wouldn’t that feel good. Made by Giggleswitch Creations


Sexy Recipes for Sunday ~ Buttermilk Blueberry Breakfast Cake

Buttermilk Blueberry Breakfast Cake Ingredients ½ cup unsalted butter, room temperature 2 tsp. lemon zest or more — zest from 1 large lemon 7/8 cup* + 1 tablespoon sugar** 1 egg, room temperature 1 tsp. vanilla 2 cups flour (set aside 1/4 cup of this to toss with the blueberries) 2 tsp. baking powder 1 tsp. kosher salt 2 cups fresh blueberries ½ cup buttermilk**** 7/8 cup = 3/4 cup + 2 tablespoons** This 1 tablespoon is for sprinkling on top *** To make homemade buttermilk, place 1 tablespoon of vinegar or lemon juice in a liquid measuring cup. Fill cup with milk until it reaches the 1-cup line. Let stand for five minutes. Use only 1/2 cup of the prepared mixture for the recipe. Instructions Preheat the oven to 350ºF. Cream butter with lemon zest and 7/8 cup of the sugar until light and fluffy. Add the egg and […]


Four Long Years As A Fetlife Creep ~ One Man’s Journey 13 comments

4 long years as a Fetlife creep 1590 days ago I got my first Fetlife message. It said “Thanks for joining FetLife :)”. 87 days ago I got my second message. Today I let Fetlife know that I am in a relationship with a very cute female submissive. The whole process was so completely counter-intuitive, it took me over four years to figure out. I wanted to tell this story because we seem to be struggling to integrate male dominant newcomers. They seem especially prone to acting like creepy arseholes. I spent 4 years one click away from being that Fetlife creep. This is my story. Four years and three months ago I joined Fetlife and started reading profiles. The first thing I noticed was that no one wanted to be my friend and they kinda would rather I didn’t get in touch and if I did get in touch […]


Freedom To Be Rude? 7 comments

Today is a day we are supposed to celebrate our freedoms we have here in America. People fought and died so that we could be a free country. The thing is I think half of them would roll over in their graves if they knew how we Americans have taken our basic rights of freedom and changed their meanings so they are not even recognizable. This post is about the freedom to do whatever the hell you want to do regardless of how it affects others, because whether we are talking about the precise expectations in the kink community for following manners about touching, approaching others, public dungeon play etc. or talking about basic everyday stuff in vanilla land, some people missed manners 101 while becoming adults. Now I am one who does not care what fork you use at the table or if you stick your pinkie out when […]


Primal Cravings is Now Live #AnalSexTutorial 2 comments

Try a different kind of fireworks this holiday. Anal erotica, complete with an anal sex tutorial Available for immediate download on Amazon After taking some needed time away from the kink scene to recover from a painful break up, Olivia is ready to return to the BDSM community. At a big kink event in Chicago, her friend drags her to a class on anal play. The last thing she expects as she sits down is to have her hard limit on anal sex challenged. Gideon is teaching All Things Anal when Olivia and Rachel take the only seats that are left, putting a woman he has long admired and desired in the front row. He sees the flush on Olivia’s cheeks as she watches him demonstrate the different types of play, and then spies her again that night, looking at him with intense scrutiny as he does a scene in the […]


Z is for Zillion #Kinky #SpankA2Z

  Is for Zillion If you hunt around the internet, go to munches, become part of discussion groups, or even attend big BDSM events where they have classes, you will see, hear, and learn about a zillion things having to do with kink. Information varies depending who is giving it because naturally, their viewpoints are slanted toward how the topic of conversation effects them. Masters, tops, dominants, Lords, Mistresses, Queens, Ladies, Sirs, Daddy’s, and Ma’ams are all on the controlling side of the fence, slaves, submissives, babygirls, brats, bottoms, adult babies, and the like are on the side that wish to be controlled. Switches and kinksters are in the middle, and anyone can enjoy giving or receiving impact play, inflicting pain, giving sensations, or bondage. All that is my attempt to lead up to what I feel are the vital things I have learned in my ten plus years of […]