Guest Post


Guest Post On Polyamory by rdhdbtrfly

Guest Post On Polyamory by rdhdbtrfly This is the fourth in the series of guest posts that we will be doing on this blog. I have never been in a poly relationship. My friend rdhdbtrfly (that is her Fetlife name) has lived in various polyamory relationships and is currently in one now, so she is a good source of information on the topic. These relationships are hard to make work because you are dealing with not two, but three or more personalities. People have many ideas about what poly is and what it means. The following article is from her point of view. Your mileage may vary. I will add my own comments at the end. Comments are encouraged, discussion is fabulous, anything bordering on rude will be deleted. Please respect the dynamic she has chosen for herself. Have an open mind, learn something new, and help spread the word about the very positive relationships […]


I am a babygirl. I am a little girl. A daddy’s girl. 41 comments

This is the third in the series of guest posts that we will be doing on this blog. Cinnamon and Sparkles aka Phoenixasubbie talks about her relationship in DD/lg dynamic. It goes along with Kayla and John’s post on their relationship last Thursday. Comments are encouraged, discussion is fabulous, anything bordering on rude will be deleted. Please respect the dynamic she has chosen for herself. Have an open mind, learn something new, and help spread the word about the very positive relationships and aspects of BDSM. I am a babygirl. I am a little girl. A daddy’s girl. This is NOT age play for me. This is not role play. This isn’t something I do because I think it’s sexy and fun. (Although it is) There are age players who practice DD/lg, but like any other dynamic, we all do it differently. For me, this is who I am. I don’t have Daddy issues. I […]


Being Her Daddy / Being His babygirl 41 comments

Being Her Daddy/ Being His Babygirl This is the second in the series of guest posts that we will be doing on this blog every Thursday. John Brownstone and his babygirl Kayla explain how their dynamic works in a Daddy/ little girl relationship. I originally got the idea of doing guest posts from reading John’s article below from his blog, and asked Kayla if she could write a companion piece to go along with it. While last week’s post by RWE focused on his roll of Daddy, this piece tells both sides. Comments are encouraged, discussion is fabulous, anything bordering on rude will be deleted. Please respect the dynamic these two people have chosen for themselves. Have an open mind, learn something new, and help spread the word about the very positive relationships and aspects of BDSM. On Being Her Daddy I want to start out right from the beginning and tell […]


The Daddy/ babygirl Dynamic 30 comments

The Daddy/ babygirl Dynamic This is the first of the guest posts I will be featuring on my blog in an effort to help others understand the dynamics of relationships or kinks people tend to misinterpret. My goal is not to spark debate, though polite comments are welcome. What I want is to increase our tolerance for things we don’t understand. This piece is written by a close friend, RWE. He has a great deal of experience with Daddy Dom/babygirl relationships, and was eager to share his knowledge in an effort to provide a clear and intelligent voice on this often misunderstood relationship.   Did You Call Him Daddy? First I would like to thank two dear friends of mine for giving me the opportunity to write and share my perspective and experience on endearing and beautiful relationship of Daddy/babygirl and its dynamics.  I want to make clear that this is […]


Guest Posts

In a couple of weeks I will be posting BDSM articles by guest bloggers. There are many aspects that I am unfamiliar with, but that in no way makes them something that shouldn’t be covered in a blog dedicated to providing factual information about BDSM and kink. The first two posts will be about Poly Relationship and what that really means, and CBT aka cock and ball torture. I feel quite unable to accurately inform my readers on these subjects.  There are other areas in which I am somewhat in the dark as well, such as latex, puppy/pony play, humiliation (consensual), and cross dressing to name a few. I welcome emails from readers who feel they could compose a factual post on these subjects as well.   I will also be resuming my regular posts. Life has just been crazy busy.