Daily Archives: August 19, 2013

A Question From the Mailbag on Enjoying Pain

I received a question from the mailbag and it’s a good one. Those who are not kinky, find it difficult to understand those of us who are. My husband and l are in continues pain so how is getting pain from someone whipping and spanking you so exotic, or even sexual. I know what it feels like and it does not turn me on at all.              maryann There are people who are masochistic. That means they enjoy pain, but that doesn’t mean they enjoy all pain. During BDSM play, there are endorphins released in the brain in response to the sensation being felt. The brain is reacting to the painful stimulus, and releases this chemical that produces a floaty feeling or adrenaline and gives a rush. When engaged in play, the person who is on the receiving end often experiences something we refer to as subspace. This comes […]

Guest Posts

In a couple of weeks I will be posting BDSM articles by guest bloggers. There are many aspects that I am unfamiliar with, but that in no way makes them something that shouldn’t be covered in a blog dedicated to providing factual information about BDSM and kink. The first two posts will be about Poly Relationship and what that really means, and CBT aka cock and ball torture. I feel quite unable to accurately inform my readers on these subjects.  There are other areas in which I am somewhat in the dark as well, such as latex, puppy/pony play, humiliation (consensual), and cross dressing to name a few. I welcome emails from readers who feel they could compose a factual post on these subjects as well.   I will also be resuming my regular posts. Life has just been crazy busy.

A Title change

Shattered Images has now become The Connely Witches… shattered Images due to confusion with my book and another with a similar title. Here is the new buy link. The Connelly Witches… Shattered Images