Guest Post: Lord Katana Explains All About Floggers

Today’s guest post is by Lord Katana. He is a good friend with a wonderful talent for making hand crafted floggers and other leather items. He made Beauty’s play cuffs, several of my favorite floggers, and my present last Christmas which was a belt/holster that has a holster for my neon wand and another holster for the Hitachi for hands free electric play and at ready fun during a play session. (Note, don’t grab the Hitachi before turning the wand off. Bad mix of electricity.) I asked him to share some of his expertise with my readers so they can learn to make informed decisions when buying toys, as well as learning how the different materials a flogger is made from can change the feel of play. Thank you for agreeing to share your expertise with us. Can you tell my readers a little about yourself and how you came …

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RTK Dungeon Crawl ~ The Spanking Bench

Welcome to this weeks Dungeon Crawl brought to you by Romancing The Kink, where kinky folks get together on Wednesdays and explore each others dungeons. People have been looking for a spanking bench and specs, so I thought I’d share pictures of how it was made. We had it custom made for Beauty to her measurements by Grandwood of Fetlife. He might be able to give you a better idea of how things were done.  Get crawling to visit the rest of the Dungeons to see what goodies they have in store for you.

e[lust] #57 Is Here!

Photo courtesy of Cammies on the Floor Welcome to Elust #57 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #58? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I’ve Got 99 Problems Vasectomy Blues I’ve always wanted to call myself queer.   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Aoyama Yuki and My Very First Times I don’t know how to be happy   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Close Enough All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their …

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Cover for New Anal Sex Erotica

              Primal Cravings: A Collection of Anal Erotica by Jolynn Raymond I have a new book, Primal Cravings, due out this summer that is a collection of anal sex erotica. I have played around with various covers and have come up with the two here as my favorites. I’d like my readers opinions. I have never had covers that were in your face sex, and wish to keep it that way but part of me likes the red better than the blue because red brings to mind heat, and this book will be very hot. We’re talking anal sex here and well that brings to mind something that is nasty, steamy, and dirty all rolled up into yum. Do you think her ass is well enough covered for Amazon? Do you think the red is better? Is the cover too dark for a thumbnail? Which one …

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Reflections: A Guest Post on Being Transgender

I’ve only met Paige a couple of times, but my impressions of her were that she was very pretty and poised. Her post takes us from the first time she put on a dress, to the well-adjusted and confident person she is now. At the end she offers to help and support others in their quest to be accepted. Her journey to becoming a Transgender woman is worth reading. It will help those who are struggling find hope, and those who are not Transgender understand the courage it takes to face the world and be open about who you are no matter what.   Reflections by Sissy Paige Recently my wife suggested i take some time to write about components of my journey through life, recognizing that there may be others who are facing many of the same challenges i have and continue to face.  So, even if no one reads this, i’m going to take a stab …

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When Pleasure and Pain Become One #SatSpanks

  Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Bloghop!  If you’re a reader who likes stories with with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you.  We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. This Saturday’s excerpt comes from Elizabeth’s Destiny. We join Maxwell and Beth as he is carrying out an order to discipline the new slave girl. He was told to whip her but simply can’t bring himself to do so much harm to the woman he has come to care for. He has decided to substitute a very hard paddling for the whipping, hoping that the dark bruises will mollify his boss. Maxwell has her on the brink of ecstasy mixing pleasure with the sting of the paddle, wanting the pleasure to make the punishment easier for her to take. Each blow brought Beth …

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A Favorite Pony Post from Onyx and @piecesofjade

This has been a popular post that has people trotting over to visit Jolynn’s. A big thank you to Onyx and Jade of Kink and Poly for letting me put it out there to everyone. Those ponies on the Human Pony Tumblr just can’t get enough of Onyx. You can find their stable here. Take a trot around and see what going on.

We Are Ethical ~ BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archive

Originally posted January 26, 2013 If you came for the books and are disturbed by BDSM, by all means, skip this post! I thought a bit about this blog post before deciding to go ahead and do it. It’s not that I am ashamed in any way shape or form about my sexuality and kinky lifestyle, it’s because as a rule, I don’t think its okay to shove BDSM down the throat of those who would feel offended by it. That said, my involvement in BDSM isn’t exactly hidden on here, so I decided to choose the road that might lead to a better understanding of who we are. That popular book, you know the one, has a lot of misconceptions. For one, there isn’t a huge percentage of us who come from dark or abusive backgrounds or have hidden traumas, at least not more than the regular population. We …

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A Fresh Start and Those Coveted BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives

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So, now that I know what I’m doing, we’ll start over fresh. I am going to be re-publishing the BDSM and Domestic Discipline Archives again since that’s one of the top things that people search for when they stop by. One night it took me two hours just to go through all the pages on the WordPress site and see what needs to be put where, and wrote it in a notebook that I keep by me on the end table in the living room. It’s our home office since everyone spends all their time here using the electronics and the printer while sitting quietly with the pets, or watching TV. Let the discipline begin and we’ll get started. Take off your shoes and get comfy on your couch and let’s go.

Beauty

We’ll be open for business tomorrow

In the meantime, pop over to Jolynn’s Raymond’s WordPress to get crawling to the Dungeon. It’s a story about Beth and how she needs to make a decision about what implement is to be used as her punishment. It’ll be hot and spicy as usual, with a little of bit of Sweet Agony thrown in for good measure. You might find yourself having a little Sweet Agony and writing about in your diary over the weekend.