How I Learned About Social Change in a Dungeon #Boundaries

Brunette Leather Latex Clubbing

How I Learned About Social Change in a Dungeon by LilBitRockNRoll Last weekend, I spent an amazing three days immersing myself in my first con at GKE. I wore crazy revealing costumes, got mostly naked in front of tons of people during my scenes, and generally just flitted about in a daze, marveling at how crazy and wonderful everyone I met was. When the con came to a close, I headed back to NYC with my friends and resumed my life. Unfortunately, within 15 minutes of resuming my life, I found myself walking down the street in my neighborhood in a pair of jeans and a jacket, passing one of the many dive bars in the area, with the following words ringing in my ears: “Look at that tight ass. Nice tight ass there.” and “Come in here I’ll buy you a drink!” and after ignoring the latter “You bitch!” …

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The Princess and The Sting #SatSpanks

Arabella - The Princess and The Sting

Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Bloghop!  If you’re a reader who likes stories with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you. We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. The Princess and the Sting by Jolynn Raymond A Domestic Discipline Fairytale Disclaimer: This is a free short story that is way over eight sentences for Saturday Spanks, and is more for your enjoyment, and to be read at your leisure. Headmistress Blake will have to give me some extra whacks. ~ Beauty Once upon a time, there was a beautiful princess. She was the only child of the king and was granted her every wish by her adoring father. The princess was so lovely that her beauty captured the heart of any man who looked upon her, but it was only skin deep. …

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Aftercare and BDSM Play

Don't Forget The Aftercare

I am a strong advocate of aftercare when engaging in BDSM play. What we do for recreation not only affects the body, but also affects the mind. Whether I play intimately with my wife, high impact with my play partner who is tough as nails, or am topping a friend who wishes to learn techniques or experience something new, I always provide aftercare. The only time I would not, would be if in the pre scene negotiations, and someone told me they wish to be left alone in their space. Even then, I wouldn’t feel it was just okay to put them out of my mind and I would make certain to learn what is their normal routine and usual activities after play. I will say right now that not every dominant or top believes in, or provides aftercare. Some feel, “Hey you, clean and put away the gear.” is the …

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elust #64 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Cheeky Minx

Photo courtesy of Cheeky Minx Welcome to Elust #64 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #65? Start with the rules, come back December1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! On a special note I want to mention that the judges voting on Elust is often very close, this month more than most. You all do such fine work that it is very hard for us to come up with the final results. ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Ownership: On Sexuality & Feminine Relations Tool Time Seven – A Fairytale of Sorts ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ The Love Letter of O To My Single Submissive Friends …

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Lessons of Love Do Over – eBook a Day Giveaway #Spanking

Lessons of Love

Lessons of Love Do Over Due to technical difficulties during the first part of the week with the website, Jetpack, GoDaddy, and whatever, people were not able to comment or if the did, it would spin and not be submitted. So, that was really annoying to everyone, and did not help anything. So, it’s do over time everyone. You have until Midnight Monday the 10th to get your answer in. You’ll find the answer in the ‘Look Inside The Book‘ feature on Lessons of  Love’s Kindle page on Amazon. Your Question, if you chose to answer it: Who did Jolie’s stepfather go into the city to meet?  Like this:Like Loading…

Jolynn’s eBook a Day Giveaway! Saturday’s Contest #Dark #Vampires

Enter To Win November 2

Five eBook Winners a Day! Win A Copy A Day of Jolynn’s Books To celebrate the twenty year anniversary of my writing, we will be giving away five books, yes five, each day this week Monday through Saturday; which has now been extended to Monday.  The book schedule will look like this: Monday – Lessons of Love – A dark and erotic historical romance. Tuesday – Taken in Hand – A non-fiction book detailing domestic discipline and BDSM relationships. Wednesday – Sweet Agony – A book of M/f short BDSM stories. Thursday – Dark Obsessions – A lesbian book of BDSM short stories. Friday – Primal Cravings – A BDSM erotica romance with Gideon and Olivia. It features anal sex erotica. Saturday – Taken: Beneath the Shadows of Evil – Book One – The first book in my paranormal, historical romance trilogy. Sunday – TBA Monday – TBA In order to …

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Wonky WordPress With Five eBooks a Day Giveaway #Meow

Woman pissed off with her computer

Damn You, Internet!

If anyone has tried to post a comment multiple times this week, or multiple in a day, and the website was being wonky, please email me at: jolynnraymond@gmail.com 

Jolynn wanted me to check with folks, so everyone got a chance to play this week. So to give everyone more chances, we extended it until next Monday. 

Jolynn’s eBook a Day Giveaway! Friday’s Contest #Olivia #AnalSex

Primal Cravings

Five eBook Winners a Day! Win A Copy A Day of Jolynn’s Books To celebrate the twenty year anniversary of my writing, we will be giving away five books, yes five, each day this week Monday through Saturday; which has now been extended to Monday.  The book schedule will look like this: Monday – Lessons of Love – A dark and erotic historical romance. Tuesday – Taken in Hand – A non-fiction book detailing domestic discipline and BDSM relationships. Wednesday – Sweet Agony – A book of M/f short BDSM stories. Thursday – Dark Obsessions – A lesbian book of BDSM short stories. Friday – Primal Cravings – A BDSM erotica romance with Gideon and Olivia. It features anal sex erotica. Saturday – Taken: Beneath the Shadows of Evil – Book One – The first book in my paranormal, historical romance trilogy. Sunday – TBA Monday – TBA In order to …

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Jolynn’s eBook a Day Giveaway! Thursday’s Contest #Lesbian #Mistress

Enter To Win November 2

Five eBook Winners a Day! Win A Copy A Day of Jolynn’s Books To celebrate the twenty year anniversary of my writing, we will be giving away five books, yes five, each day this week Monday through Saturday; which has now been extended to Monday.  The book schedule will look like this: Monday – Lessons of Love – A dark and erotic historical romance. Tuesday – Taken in Hand – A non-fiction book detailing domestic discipline and BDSM relationships. Wednesday – Sweet Agony – A book of M/f short BDSM stories. Thursday – Dark Obsessions – A lesbian book of BDSM short stories. Friday – Primal Cravings – A BDSM erotica romance with Gideon and Olivia. It features anal sex erotica. Saturday – Taken: Beneath the Shadows of Evil – Book One – The first book in my paranormal, historical romance trilogy. Sunday – TBA Monday – TBA In order to …

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Jolynn’s eBook A Day Giveaway! Wednesday’s Contest #BDSM

Enter To Win November 2

Five eBook Winners a Day! Win A Copy A Day of Jolynn’s Books To celebrate the twenty year anniversary of my writing, we will be giving away five books, yes five, each day this week Monday through Saturday; which has now been extended to Monday.  The book schedule will look like this: Monday – Lessons of Love – A dark and erotic historical romance. Tuesday – Taken in Hand – A non-fiction book detailing domestic discipline and BDSM relationships. Wednesday – Sweet Agony – A book of M/f short BDSM stories. Thursday – Dark Obsessions – A lesbian book of BDSM short stories. Friday – Primal Cravings – A BDSM erotica romance with Gideon and Olivia. It features anal sex erotica. Saturday – Taken: Beneath the Shadows of Evil – Book One – The first book in my paranormal, historical romance trilogy. Sunday – TBA Monday – TBA In order to …

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Five eBook Winners a Day! Tuesday’s Contest #DD #BDSM

Enter To Win November 2

Five eBook Winners a Day! Win A Copy A Day of Jolynn’s Books To celebrate the twenty year anniversary of my writing, we will be giving away five books, yes five, each day this week Monday through Saturday. The book schedule will look like this: Monday – Lessons of Love – A dark and erotic historical romance. Tuesday – Taken in Hand – A non-fiction book detailing domestic discipline and BDSM relationships. Wednesday – Sweet Agony – A book of M/f short BDSM stories. Thursday – Dark Obsessions – A lesbian book of BDSM short stories. Friday – Primal Cravings – A BDSM erotica romance with Gideon and Olivia. It features anal sex erotica. Saturday – Taken: Beneath the Shadows of Evil – Book One – The first book in my paranormal, historical romance trilogy. In order to win you must: Answer a question about the book. (You can find …

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