discipline at home


Vintage Spanking Photos

This is a classic vintage spanking photo. It holds a lot more charm for me than its modern day counterparts. As many of you know, I like to look at the search terms to find out what people are looking for. One that comes up fairly often is vintage spanking photos. Despite my love of history, I haven’t given much thought to vintage photos of spanking in days gone by, so I decided I’d do an image search, and lo and behold it turned up pages of old images which I have to say I find appealing. The picture above is interesting and erotic to me because of the clothing that has to be lifted, the cane is ever present and I love canes, and the knowledge that if she was bent over just a tiny bit more you would get a nice peek of her lady bits, and because I could easily build […]


Don’t Forget a Gift For Yourself

Now It’s Time For You Now that they’ve opened all their presents, it’s time for you to have one too. Give yourself a gift that will take you far away from all the stress and let you put those annoying relatives out of your mind. Find your escape with a novel by Jolynn Raymond All books available for instant download onto Kindle or PC and in paperback Kinky Historical Romance Lessons of Love Elizabeth’s Destiny Paranormal Historical Romance The Beneath the Shadows of Evil Trilogy Taken Torn Treasured Paranormal Romance Shattered Images A Past Undone Set of both Connely Witches books BDSM Short Story Collections Sweet Agony Dark Obsessions Kinky Novella Dining In Non Fiction BDSM DD and Relationship Book Taken In Hand


Heat Up Their Holiday

Nothing heats up a cold winter’s night like kinky historical novels and BDSM short stories by Jolynn Raymond All Books available in paperback and ebook All books are age 18 plus Kinky Historical Romance Lessons of Love Elizabeth’s Destiny BDSM Short Story Collections Sweet Agony Dark Obsessions Kinky Novella Dining In Non Fiction BDSM DD and Relationship Book Taken In Hand


Creating Balance and Love in Your Domestic Discipline Relationship 7 comments

The people who are involved in domestic discipline and power exchange relationships will often tell those who question their lifestyle choice that the addition of structure and discipline has brought them much closer. While there will always be naysayers and those who remain skeptical, those of us who live in these types of relationships will undoubtedly insist that it’s true. The act of giving guidance, creating structure, holding someone accountable, seeing to their every need including the need for discipline, creates a special bond. There are no long periods of resentment, unresolved anger, or holding on to things that fester and gnaw at a relationship. Issues arise, they are handled in a way that both people find not only acceptable, but desirable, and the problem is laid to rest. Do DD couples argue? Actually no, my wife and I don’t. I give her a stern talking to in conjunction with any […]


Everything You Wanted to Know About Domestic Discipline and D/s Relationships 1 comment

Taken in Hand is now live and ready for purchase.  Click Here to begin your journey into BDSM, power exchange relationships and Domestic Discipline I have combined many of my Ask Jolynn Posts and added information to help you begin a quality stable domestic discipline relationship or explore the world of BDSM with factual information that will keep you safe and explain some of the ins and outs of BDSM. Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is an in-depth tutorial that takes the relationship past the simple act of discipline, to building a rock solid foundation that will ultimately create a deep bond of trust and love between those involved. Taken In Hand will guide those […]


Happy Spanksgiving

Now that the relatives are gone and the household is sleeping off their turkey induced stupor, why not curl up with a steamy bit of erotica? Lessons of Love  spins the tale of a southern belle forced into marriage with a heartless, but ever so handsome rogue who believes in disciplining his new bride. While Elizabeth’s Destiny takes you on a wild and kinky adventure in the harem of a grand palace in India. Both will serve up food for your kinky mind and help alleviate the stress that holidays with family can bring. Go ahead, indulge yourself in a steamy read that’s guaranteed to knock your socks off and give you very sweet dreams. Or, if you are looking for something with even more kink, all of my books can be found here. Jolynn Raymond’s Amazon page.


A Submissive’s Point of View 3 comments

I saw this picture and statement a few days ago, posted by Michael Makai, and immediately loved it. In fact, I changed my avatar on Fetlife to this picture. I’ve read it over a number of times and have identified with it very strongly, but there is always a moment of pause because the part about being so damn good at it is really quite presumptuous. This train of thought sent me on a search to find out just what submissives think makes a great dominant, not what we dominants think makes us good. I know I have preached to my readers about how it isn’t easy to be dominant. I’ve listed a code of ethics, I’ve talked about not being selfish or thinking it’s all about you, but all of that has come from my own point of view, not that of someone who wears the shoe on the […]


Erotic and Kinky Stocking Stuffers

Now that Halloween is over the rush to the holidays will begin. Settle back and relax knowing you have a perfect stocking stuffer. Lessons of Love and Elizabeth’s Destiny  are sure to add some sizzle Give them to someone you’d love to spice things up with, or save them to savor on your own when you need some private time. Both Lessons of love and Elizabeth’s Destiny are available in bot ebook and paperback Order yours today Lessons of Love        Elizabeth’s Destiny Both by Jolynn Raymond