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About JolynnRaymond

Writer of historical paranormal romance, kinky historical romance, and BDSM Mistress and Sex Blogger. I hold the position of being one of Kinkly's Top 100 Sex Bloggers. Two of my books, Taken in Hand A Guide to Domestic Discipline and His Lordship's Wayward Wife, have been nominated as best BDSM Non Fiction and Best BDSM Historical books of the year. The awards ceremony will take place at the BDSM Writers Con in New York City this August.

Primal Cravings is Now Live #AnalSexTutorial 2 comments

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Try a different kind of fireworks this holiday. Anal erotica, complete with an anal sex tutorial Available for immediate download on Amazon After taking some needed time away from the kink scene to recover from a painful break up, Olivia is ready to return to the BDSM community. At a big kink event in Chicago, her friend drags her to a class on anal play. The last thing she expects as she sits down is to have her hard limit on anal sex challenged. Gideon is teaching All Things Anal when Olivia and Rachel take the only seats that are left, putting a woman he has long admired and desired in the front row. He sees the flush on Olivia’s cheeks as she watches him demonstrate the different types of play, and then spies her again that night, looking at him with intense scrutiny as he does a scene in the […]

Z is for Zillion #Kinky #SpankA2Z

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  Is for Zillion If you hunt around the internet, go to munches, become part of discussion groups, or even attend big BDSM events where they have classes, you will see, hear, and learn about a zillion things having to do with kink. Information varies depending who is giving it because naturally, their viewpoints are slanted toward how the topic of conversation effects them. Masters, tops, dominants, Lords, Mistresses, Queens, Ladies, Sirs, Daddy’s, and Ma’ams are all on the controlling side of the fence, slaves, submissives, babygirls, brats, bottoms, adult babies, and the like are on the side that wish to be controlled. Switches and kinksters are in the middle, and anyone can enjoy giving or receiving impact play, inflicting pain, giving sensations, or bondage. All that is my attempt to lead up to what I feel are the vital things I have learned in my ten plus years of […]

Y is for Yellow or Know Your Safety Words #SpankA2Z 4 comments

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Know Your Safewords Y is for yellow, and it also for one of the colors used almost globally during BDSM play. Yellow, though not often heard about or used in fiction BDSM books is important, and so is knowing how your partner feels when they answer “yellow” when asked what color they are feeling. There are many people who don’t feel a ‘true’ submissive or slave needs a safe word, many dominants who believe that having a safe word shows a lack of trust in their bottom. I’m not going to go into all of the reasons why I do believe in safe words, but I will say that I use the color code system EVERY TIME I play with a new partner. This is not because I don’t have faith in my ability to read someone. This is not because I want to be able to push my bottom […]

V is for Vacation #SpankA2Z 4 comments

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  Summers are made for vacations and vacations are made for getting away from the craziness of the city and escaping to somewhere quiet and peaceful. Right now it is quiet, peaceful, and dark, We just got back to the hotel from dinner and shopping to find the power is out. The sun is setting and it’s our last source of light, but fear not, there is always the battery in the computer and the iPhone that can be turned into a WiFi hot spot. We are in northern Indiana where my father grew up. Shipshawana to be exact. He grew up on a farm in Blufton but it’s boring there. Shipshawana is Amish country. There will be a huge flea market tomorrow, and an antique auction on Wednesday, and lots of food. Maybe not everyone’s choice for a relaxing vacation, but being away from the city and eating yummy […]

Q is for Queen – It’s Good To Be The Queen #SpankA2Z 1 comment

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It’s Good To Be The Queen Q is for Queen My very dear friend dubbed me the queen a few years ago, and it has stuck. I don’t walk around in public at munches or parties acting as if all pay homage, but I have come to like the moniker Jud has bestowed, at least when spoken by him. Beauty has decided the term fits as well, and has bought me a night shirt, picture frames, and other things with a crown on them. And so, I am the Queen to my closest kink friend and my wife. I come complete with ‘The Royal Snap™’ which is given by my green dragon tail whip upon Jud’s ass. Once I had him call me “Your Highness” during a play session which then of course required many more snaps while he was being told to enunciate! Hop on over to the rest […]

R is for Role – What is a Man’s Role at a CFNM? #SpankA2Z 39 comments

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R is for Role – What Is A Man’s Role at a CNFM Party? On occasion I still receive mail from a man who has stumbled across a post about CFNM (clothed female, nude male) I made on Fetlife some time ago. I am well aware that there are MANY men who fantasies about serving at a CFNM party, and that in those fantasies they are made to do all sorts of things that turn them on. It is their fantasy, and they are more than welcome to it. We each have images in our heads that touch the very core of our sexuality and turn up the thermostat inside. The problem that comes with our attempt to live out those fantasies is that the other people in them don’t necessarily act in the way we dreamed about. The post that I have copied and pasted here is really a […]