Yearly Archives: 2014

Can BDSM Play and Psychological Triggers Still Equal Safe, Sane, and Consensual? 13 comments

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Can BDSM Play and Psychological Triggers Still Equal Safe, Sane, and Consensual? @Jack_of_hearts7 Triggers during a BDSM scene are something we should be talking about, because when they happen, consent can become muddled and those involved on either side of the scene can feel helpless. The following interview was done with a friend who suffers from PTSD. It is one that everyone should read whether they play in their local kink dungeons or in the privacy of their own home. It is one that should be read if you are interested in BDSM and have psychological issues, have a partner who does, or could someday meet someone who deals with triggers on a day to day basis. So basically that means just about everyone, because no one knows what the future will bring. This article isn’t meant to scare anyone away, it is meant to educate so you are prepared, and […]

Adventures In Kink: Day One MTKF 2 comments

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I know I planned a ‘you are there’ kind of posting, but it simply didn’t pan out. There was just too much to do. I only finished half of my interview with Tamed on triggers because we talked too much about general things during the ride to Madison. Best laid plans and all that. She has the rest of the questions and is going to send them back. We just had to catch up, and once Madtown began, all of us were busy. The BDSM play ideas listed should be done in a safe, sane, and consensual way with the awareness of the risk involved. The author of this blog cannot be held responsible for any actions of the readers. I am simply reporting facts learned. Day One of the actual convention: We slept in, which was the plan, and were rested up for the classes when they began. The […]

Kink Toy Tuesday: Fourth Edition #Spanking #Lollipop 2 comments

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The Lollipop Paddle Our kink toy for today is the Lollipop paddle. Jolynn picked this up this last weekend at Madtown Kinkfest. The folks that make it are 12:11 Kink and it’s around $40, depending on if you buy it at the event or have one sent to you. It’s made with Corian by Dupont, and you care for it like you would for your countertop. So, you can imagine what it would be like to be whapped by a round bit of Corian that’s 2 x 2 inches. The paddle itself is sixteen inches. Jolynn gave me one whap to test it out right after she had bought it. It lives in the nightstand on her side of the bed. I said it should only be for Jud and she didn’t think so. I’m sure he will be excited to experience it when he comes over to the house.  Beauty     […]

Olivia Gets Bold #SatSpanks 10 comments

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Welcome to the Saturday Spankings Blog hop!  If you’re a reader who likes stories with with a touch of corporal punishment, this is the hop for you.  We welcome readers comments, in fact we hunger for them, so don’t be stingy when you’re visiting.  Authors thrive on encouragement. This snippet is taken from Carnal Passion: A Book of Anal Erotica. I’ve decided two and three word sentences don’t really count. I apologize to Headmistress Blake for my discretion. Gideon and Olivia have negotiated on a scene that will introduce Olivia to anal play. Once he is certain she is ready to venture into the great unknown, he is laying down the rules and making certain she is in the right frame of mind for what is to come., and he doesn’t want to hear even a hint of sass. I’m going to pound you until your knees are scraped raw […]

Kinky Convention Here We Come #BDSMConvention 1 comment

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The suitcase is packed, the toy bag has been checked and rechecked to make sure I have everything I need, our outfits for the nights in the dungeon are planned, and the schedule has been worked out more or less. What are you going to see in the upcoming days? Some of it will depend on our energy level because these events are fun but exhausting. That’s why we go a day early to settle in. Interviews I am planning on interviewing at least two people. Tamed will talk about triggers. Triggers are an unseen, often unexpected, and sometimes scary emotional reaction that can happen during a scene. If your play partner has triggers, you better know what they are. Secondly, Wanda will talk about CBT (cock and ball torture). I am also hoping to snag an interview on interrogation play. There is a big scene planned which will be […]

Sex Stories We Love Shoutout #Kinkly

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Sex Stories We Love: Sleeping Naked, Techno Sex Gadgets and Sex on the Beach … Or Not http://t.co/dskddxEBA2 @Jill_Hamilton @JolynnRaymond — Bobbie Morgan (@GoodDirtyWoman) July 15, 2014 I received a nice shout out from Bobbie Morgan aka Ms. Quote on Kinkly’s Sex Stories We Love this week. It is for a post called Four Long Years As A Fetlife Creep ~ One Man’s Journey featured here on Dark Obsessions. She is a contributor to Kinkly as a sex blogging columnist, and also on A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind. Bobbie just recently hosted the month long Adult Sex Ed for June. If you missed it, you can read this June’s and last years, which was the very first, on the Adult Sex Ed website. There is a lot of helpful information in one place for everyone. 

e[lust] #60 is Here! #SexBloggers

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Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to e[lust] #60 The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Shame Hurts Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica #RealBodiesAreSexy ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I may never suck another cock, but I’m still The sofa ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Introduction to Erotica All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and […]

Confessions of a Sex Addict ~ Just Released! 1 comment

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CONFESSIONS of a SEX ADDICT By Jinni James, Elodie Parkes, Hunter S. Jones, Electra von Drego ~~~ Secrets revealed. One hot summer, four sultry stories.  An erotic anthology with a twist, set in contemporary New Orleans. Meet Andi, the bartender from Nashville who won’t be faithful. Drew, the seducer or the victim? The anonymous one, the one who watches. Jennifer the cougar, she’s a good girl, really. The moderator, friend or predator? Love. Magic. Guilty Pleasures.  Buy It Now on Amazon Available Today – July 15, 2014 on Amazon Kindle Goodreads: Confessions of a Sex Addict ~~~~~~~ Authors ~ Confessions of a Sex Addict   MIDNIGHT SECRETS  – JINNI JAMES Jinni James lives in her beloved state of Alabama with her amazing husband, her two precious girls, and her awesome stepdaughter along with her lazy cat and her hyperactive dog.  She works during the day as an administrative assistant with […]