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The Fun, the Serious, and the In Between in BDSM 37 comments

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The Fun, the Serious, and the In Between in BDSM Those who follow my posts on BDSM know that there are some things that make me very serious, in fact, the majority of my teachings contain little humor, but that isn’t true for everything. I love to laugh. Who doesn’t? They say laughter is good for any number things, and it can actually boost your metabolism. I guess if I want to lose my excessive curves I need to sit and laugh from morning until night. That would be such fun, but the day job won’t allow for it, but that doesn’t mean I can’t find humor in my kinky lifestyle. Even so, we are going to begin with the serious, and work our way to the fun so I can leave you smiling. The Serious – Ethics – Though I can be a happy caring sadist, I do my […]

Elust #63 Is Here! #SexBloggers

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Photo courtesy of A to sub Bee Welcome to Elust #63 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #64? Start with the rules, come back November1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ I am Sexy at Every Size Censored? Never By My Hand #DarkErotica #BDSM Hovering ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Show Me, Daddy The pride of being a dom ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Ask Better Questions All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the […]

Your Vote Counts In Kinkly’s 2014 Sex Blogging Superhero Contest 8 comments

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Kinkly is running the 2014 Sex Blogging Superhero Contest right now. Your vote counts! Have a favorite sex blogger you want to nominate? Here’s how it works: Find your favorite blogger in Kinkly’s Sex Blogger Directory. Now click on your favorite bloggers from the Sex Blogger Directory page and hit their Vote For Me button. Voting for the same blogger more than once won’t count – sorry, but feel free to vote for multiple blogs. For extra kudos, leave a comment on this article telling them why you might love a certain superhero blogger or include a link to any articles you thought were especially awesome over the last year. They’ll tally up the votes and read through ALL the blogs with the highest number of votes. (Hey someone’s gotta do the dirty work around here …) At the end of October Kinkly will announce the winners based on a […]

Elust #61 is Here! #SexBloggers

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Photo Courtesy of Maria Opens Up Welcome to Elust #61 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #62? Start with the rules, come back September1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bloggers, please I Touch Myself Stunt Porn / People Porn ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Is sex unsexy? A ‘His & Hers’ post Van Gogh, an erotic author and a selfie…   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* His Desires All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. […]

The Demon Inside: Part Two #Vampire #BDSM 10 comments

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We pick up right where we left off last week. Cassie has enraged her vampire lover by deliberately making him jealous. Now they are back at his old place and the demon inside Gabriel needs revenge on his wayward female. She is his claimed mate and belongs to only him.   The Demon Inside   Cassie obediently came to him across the floor, the dirt and loose rock scraping her knees. She placed the items at his feet and dropped to her hands once more, pressing her forehead to the floor, assuming the correct punishment position. “Sit up on your knees and look at me Cassie.” She did and the pain in his eyes went straight to her heart. At this point she wanted him to thrash the hell out of her. “What do you think I should do to a strayin’ harlot such as yourself?” “I deserve all of […]

Today’s Saturday Kink Post… Real BDSM Play Scenes

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Today’s Saturday post doubles as self promotion. I wanted to bring my real life kink books to the forefront, because though I have written about kink, my role in it, play, relationships, titles, and the reality of how I live in a BDSM lifestyle, I think these books can give insight that an informational post cannot. I spend much of my time advertising my historical romances, but thought my books of BDSM short stories deserved a post of their own to remind my readers that they too are worth reading, and can help one understand the emotional, physical, safe and sane aspects of true BDSM scenes. Sweet Agony is a collection of M/f BDSM scenes and Dark Obsessions is a collection of F/f BDSM scenes. Both are compiled of fetish play I have actually done, and go from fairly mild to pretty hardcore. They include many aspects of kinky fetishes such as impact play (breast, flogging, spanking, whipping, lashing, paddling, pussy punishment, […]

Saturday’s Topic

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This is going to be a busy weekend. We are having a CFNM party. For those of you who are new to kink, CFNM stands for clothed women, nude men. This is a giant leap into the world of our fun kinky lifestyle. It comes out of order since I was building up with the basics, but since we are having the party, it fits in now. And so my friends, if you’d like a little peek inside a wonderfully kinky kind of party, tune in on Saturday. Oh, and I bet you are REALLY curious why a lesbian would hold a party where naked men run around and serve us.

What’s In a Name? An Explanation of BDSM Roles 18 comments

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  What’s In a Name? An Explanation of BDSM Roles The roles I will be writing about today are based on my understanding of them. Others may have different views. I am in no way trying to wave my flag of experience and shout “These are the exact definition”. I am speaking of how I interpret them after witnessing many relationships in the BDSM community. Your mileage may vary. My explanations today are leaning towards basic definitions. We will get deeper into the intricacies of the different power exchange relationships in another Saturday post. I am also in no way passing any judgement on any of the roles. I am very supportive of other’s kink even if I do not understand it, practice it in my own relationships, or find it exciting, as long as it takes place between consenting adults and is done safely. Most of these roles take […]

Mistress, submissive, slave, Master, Owner, toy, Daddy, bottom, top …

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What the heck do all these different titles mean? The topic of Saturday’s kinky post will be defining the different roles and titles people in BDSM relationships identify with. there are an infinite number, so I will only address the most common ones. Tune in if this new topic makes you say hummm….. interesting. See you then!