Monthly Archives: February 2015


Domestic Discipline & Power Exchange Relationship Workshop ~ BDSM Writers Con 2015 #NYC 2 comments

Domestic Discipline and Power Exchange Relationship Workshop BDSM Writers Con NYC ~ August 21 – 23, 2015 Creating and Understanding Domestic Discipline and Power Exchange Relationships by Jolynn Raymond and Beauty’s Punishment This workshop will explore the ins and outs of my own personal, domestic discipline and power exchange relationships with my wife Beauty, my play partner, and my service submissives. I am the dominant and head of household in my marriage, as well as being the head of my kink family, and I will share exactly what that entails. I will emphasize on the dominant’s role and responsibilities in creating and maintaining either a DD or D/s relationship. Attendees will be walked through the topics of discussion that must be covered prior to any kink relationship, as well as how to set up the rules, routines, responsibilities, and punishments. All of these aspects take time to establish, and must suit each individual pair, […]


This Is How I Poly. ~ Guest Post by Jack 5 comments

This Is How I Poly. Guest Post by Jack aka Tamed @Jack_of_hearts7 There are certain ideas, certain concepts that I have long wanted to communicate clearly and concisely to partners, potential partners, lovers, FWBs, or people that I have complex relationships with that I do not have a name for. Sometimes though, I find myself, for whatever reason, unable to clearly articulate them. I may make additions to this list as it occurs to me to do so. In no particular order of importance… Point the First: I don’t place my relationships on a hierarchy. It is true, I am married and rather happily so. And sometimes the people I am involved with naturally assume that means that my spouse will always “out rank” them in terms of importance in my life. That is not true. While he is my “primary” partner, “primary” in this instance means that my life […]


Elust #67 Is Here! #SexBloggers 1 comment

Photo courtesy of Rebels Notes Welcome to Elust #67 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #68? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Yes, Squirting is Real (And it’s not pee.) These men make me SO angry Still Kinky After All These Years   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ When It Rains You want me to read what?   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You […]


The Fun, the Serious, and the In Between in BDSM 35 comments

The Fun, the Serious, and the In Between in BDSM Those who follow my posts on BDSM know that there are some things that make me very serious, in fact, the majority of my teachings contain little humor, but that isn’t true for everything. I love to laugh. Who doesn’t? They say laughter is good for any number things, and it can actually boost your metabolism. I guess if I want to lose my excessive curves I need to sit and laugh from morning until night. That would be such fun, but the day job won’t allow for it, but that doesn’t mean I can’t find humor in my kinky lifestyle. Even so, we are going to begin with the serious, and work our way to the fun so I can leave you smiling. The Serious – Ethics – Though I can be a happy caring sadist, I do my […]


Kink Up Your Kindle ~ Countdown Deals Start February 13th

  Looking to get your kink on and not sure what to read? It’s Valentine’s Day weekend, and there are so many choices to pick from, so what’s a girl to do?  His Lordship’s Wayward Wife Kindle Countdown Sale Starting 10am Central Standard Time Friday 2/13 – .99 cents Saturday 2/14 – $1.99 Sunday 2/15 – $2.99 Monday 2/16 – $4.95 A fast paced, and edgy BDSM historical romance guaranteed to keep you up at night in more ways than one. Taken In Hand Kindle Countdown Sale Starting 10am Central Standard Time Friday 2/13 – .99 cents Saturday 2/14 – $1.99 Sunday 2/15 – $2.99 Monday 2/16 – $3.99 Give your Valentine the gift of a stronger relationship. Primal Cravings Kindle Countdown Sale Starting 10am Central Standard Time Friday 2/13 – .99 cents Saturday 2/14 – $1.99 Sunday 2/15 – $2.99 Monday 2/16 – $3.95 Warning ~ Reading Primal Cravings out loud […]


Still Kinky After All These Years 48 comments

Lady Taya and Jud – {Not Jolynn in the picture} Disclaimer: The story below sprang forth from a dinner conversation. We have not attended the BDSM Writers Con. That adventure happens this summer. I am choosing that particular venue because we are strangers there, and have discussed the fact that the DMs will need to be spoken to. Still Kinky After All These Years We have an old guy. I’ve written about him before because he is such an important part of our lives. He’s part friend, part counsel to the Queen, part play partner, and all family. He’s our Loyal Lesbian, our occasional chauffeur, someone we laugh with, go places with, and worry about. He’s getting up there in years and has a wealth of information and life stories jam packed inside that grey haired head. Someday he and I are going to sit down and write his biography […]


The BuzzFeed Try Guys Try BDSM #NSFW #HudsyHawn

I regularly watch BuzzFeed videos, especially the Try Guys. I like that they are always doing something different, and its usually thought provoking. Also if I am in need of a giggle or at least be in a better mood, I am by the end of the video. You may be looking at the videos in the links and say to yourself, “WTF?” There’s a lot of weird stuff and I don’t know what to watch. On the BuzzFeed Youtube channel there happens to be playlists you can pick from, or you can make your own. I believe I first saw Hudsy Hawn on the E! Entertainment TV Special “The Real 50 Shades of Grey”. The clip below features her part in the show. I have not been able to find the full video for the show online; if you dig through Youtube you may be able to get the gist of […]