Monthly Archives: March 2013

Why Dominant? 3 comments

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Here is the post I promised those who have been following my informative yet kinky Saturday BDSM posts. I want to address the whys of dominance while at the same time hopefully answer some questions people who are just starting out might have. I’m also speaking about dominance because the poll showed that dominance and submission were the most wanted topics. As I’ve said before, when I first started to realize that the thoughts I was having about punishment and spanking were shared by others, I thought I was submissive. I think it had something to do with the fact that I wanted to be on the receiving end and therefore couldn’t be in the dominant role. The fact that I was always the person in control in my romantic relationships didn’t occur to me. My boyfriends weren’t meek or anything, they just wanted to please me, and I have […]

Equality Not Dominance

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I had planned on writing about dominance, it’s something that is a very part of me. It effect my relationships, it makes me feel settled, it’s both who and what I am. The thing is, even with all that, it pales in comparison with my desire to be equal. I make all the decisions in my home and in my marriage, yes I said marriage, but it’s that very thing that I cannot control and it hurts in a way I can’t really describe. I love my wife. I cherish her, promise to be faithful, promise to be by her side in good times and bad. We said the words in front of our friends, exchanged rings, did a sand ceremony, and then I also collared her. It was an incredible day and event that joined us forever, but our joining has a big hole. Now Beauty is my wife […]

A Change of Heart

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After much deliberation and a bit of a spat with my Muse, I have decided to change the title of book two in my Beneath the Shadows of Evil Series to Torn. I had named it Trapped, because really, Alliana is still there against her will, but the spark of love starts within these pages and so she is indeed torn. Does she dare to love the one who holds her captive? The answer to this and more will be revealed on May 1st.

Saturday’s Topic… Punishment vs Funishment Spanking

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The topic of spanking keeps popping up in the search box, and that tells me my readers are seeking more information on the subject of spanking. Tomorrow I will discuss the difference between punishment and funishment spanking, implements, positions, and the big difference in general between spanking for fun and spanking for discipline.

Here’s Something you Need to Check Out! 1 comment

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Magic at Work has just been released! Sotia Lazu is an author who is near and dear to my heart. She got her start writing about the same time I did. Her genres of choice are romances with a twist and urban fantasy novels, always with vivid erotic elements. Her characters aren’t exactly hero-material at first glance; she likes making them fight for their happiness. Still, the romantic in her can’t resist happy endings. She thought he hated her. He thought she was too good for him. Fate proved them both wrong. On a slow day at work, Lexi Adams discovers an on-line erotic romance novel. Intrigued by the similarities she shares with the heroine, she starts reading and becomes enamored with the leading man. The problem is, she’s only able to access the novel on her work computer. Ric Ackart, head of the IT department, suspects she’s slacking off and decides […]

Fetishes, Kinks, and Desires, Oh My! 2 comments

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Fetishes, Kinks, and Desires, Oh My! What do all those fetish terms mean and do people really do that? Oh yes, yes they do, and they have a lot of fun. Whether it’s an activity, a relationship role, a toy, or something that feeds the pleasure center of their brains and fulfills a fantasy, people do all sorts of things to capture that feeling that makes their body come alive. Some may seem very strange, some may make you cringe, some make you feel disgusted, but to someone else it spells out pleasure. In the kink community, we try not to judge. Just because your fetish makes me squeamish or makes me say “No way would I do that!”, as long as all who participate do it with consent and are of legal age, then it isn’t my right to bash it. We are unique, and so are our fetishes […]

5 Star Reviews For Taken!!

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5.0 out of 5 stars Beneath the shadows of Evil !!! mind blowing good!! March 6, 2013 By Lesa Format:Kindle Edition This is one awesome read I started this book at bedtime and didn’t want to fall asleep it was way to interesting but sleep claim me. First thing at morning put on my coffee and read the day away family had to fend for themselves. This book had me on edge I went from pissed to awed. I’m saying read this book read reviews before I wrote mine come on lower stars because of some mistakes really? Well everyone has an opinion I never thought less of incredible talent. This book is right up there with one of my Favorite Authors C.Feehan Loved it. Dear Author I’m a total fan of your work. One hell of a read I hated when it was over I need more. Thank you Loved […]