Yearly Archives: 2013


Why Dominant? 3 comments

Here is the post I promised those who have been following my informative yet kinky Saturday BDSM posts. I want to address the whys of dominance while at the same time hopefully answer some questions people who are just starting out might have. I’m also speaking about dominance because the poll showed that dominance and submission were the most wanted topics. As I’ve said before, when I first started to realize that the thoughts I was having about punishment and spanking were shared by others, I thought I was submissive. I think it had something to do with the fact that I wanted to be on the receiving end and therefore couldn’t be in the dominant role. The fact that I was always the person in control in my romantic relationships didn’t occur to me. My boyfriends weren’t meek or anything, they just wanted to please me, and I have […]


Equality Not Dominance

I had planned on writing about dominance, it’s something that is a very part of me. It effect my relationships, it makes me feel settled, it’s both who and what I am. The thing is, even with all that, it pales in comparison with my desire to be equal. I make all the decisions in my home and in my marriage, yes I said marriage, but it’s that very thing that I cannot control and it hurts in a way I can’t really describe. I love my wife. I cherish her, promise to be faithful, promise to be by her side in good times and bad. We said the words in front of our friends, exchanged rings, did a sand ceremony, and then I also collared her. It was an incredible day and event that joined us forever, but our joining has a big hole. Now Beauty is my wife […]


A Change of Heart

After much deliberation and a bit of a spat with my Muse, I have decided to change the title of book two in my Beneath the Shadows of Evil Series to Torn. I had named it Trapped, because really, Alliana is still there against her will, but the spark of love starts within these pages and so she is indeed torn. Does she dare to love the one who holds her captive? The answer to this and more will be revealed on May 1st.


Saturday’s Topic… Punishment vs Funishment Spanking

The topic of spanking keeps popping up in the search box, and that tells me my readers are seeking more information on the subject of spanking. Tomorrow I will discuss the difference between punishment and funishment spanking, implements, positions, and the big difference in general between spanking for fun and spanking for discipline.


Here’s Something you Need to Check Out! 1 comment

Magic at Work has just been released! Sotia Lazu is an author who is near and dear to my heart. She got her start writing about the same time I did. Her genres of choice are romances with a twist and urban fantasy novels, always with vivid erotic elements. Her characters aren’t exactly hero-material at first glance; she likes making them fight for their happiness. Still, the romantic in her can’t resist happy endings. She thought he hated her. He thought she was too good for him. Fate proved them both wrong. On a slow day at work, Lexi Adams discovers an on-line erotic romance novel. Intrigued by the similarities she shares with the heroine, she starts reading and becomes enamored with the leading man. The problem is, she’s only able to access the novel on her work computer. Ric Ackart, head of the IT department, suspects she’s slacking off and decides […]