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Elust #71 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of The Shingle Beach Welcome to Elust #71 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #72? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Backyard Glory Bra Wars Versions of Ourselves ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Disabled characters: who do I write them for? How Can You Think About Sex Right Now? ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Three All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo […]


Elust #70 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Exposing 40 Welcome to Elust #70 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #71? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Exposed! My Mom Knows! Flash Fiction: “A Taste” I am a Sex Blogger & I Reject Pseudonymity ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ ‘X’ is for X… Give my guilt an erotic payoff? Tell me more. ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Dis-moi… All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs […]


Elust #69 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Sex Is My New Hobby Welcome to Elust #69 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #70? Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Bully for you Watching Me Red in Tooth and Claw ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ He’s Got Her Subject/Object/My Desire ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Waiting with Snowdrops All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the […]


Elust #68 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Molly’s Daily Kiss Welcome to Elust #68 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #69? Start with the rules, come back April 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ A Misunderstanding With My Clitoris BDSM Doesn’t Magically Fix Your Life Discussing Consent, Culture, and What We Do ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Other people run. I fuck. Frame by Frame ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding […]


Elust #67 Is Here! #SexBloggers 170 comments

Photo courtesy of Rebels Notes Welcome to Elust #67 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #68? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Yes, Squirting is Real (And it’s not pee.) These men make me SO angry Still Kinky After All These Years   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ When It Rains You want me to read what?   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You […]


Elust #66 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of CurvaceousDee Welcome to Elust #66 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #67? Start with the rules, come back February 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! For our UK readers, we would like to make a special request that you take a moment and fill out this petition to repeal the new censorship laws. ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Small Breasts Watching Her Cum An Ode to Blow Jobs   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Of Skeletons and Secrets Would you be bored?   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Lust Fish All […]


e[lust] #60 is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Chintz Curtain Welcome to e[lust] #60 The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Shame Hurts Of Cocks and Cunts: The Language of Erotica #RealBodiesAreSexy ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I may never suck another cock, but I’m still The sofa ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Introduction to Erotica All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and […]


e[lust] #59 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Frisky in the 916 Welcome to Elust #59 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #60? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Considering Cocks I Love Interrogation, or Diabolical Genius Yes all Women but Not All Men Rant   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ I Kissed A Girl (& Her Man) And I Liked It 10 Things No One Warns You About Nonmonogamy   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Andromeda All blogs that have a submission in this edition must […]


G is for Domestic Discipline Guide #SpankA2Z 4 comments

G is for Domestic Discipline Guide #SpankA2Z Today the G for Guide is referring to my book Taken in Hand: A Guide to Domestic Discipline, Power Exchange, and Related BDSM Topics. It is a guide to help those seeking to establish a domestic discipline relationship that includes spanking and the various D/s relationships that are part of BDSM. Beginning a dominant and submissive or domestic discipline relationship that involves disciplining your partner and taking or giving up control to one person can be scary, and any relationship can have pitfalls. It’s easier when you know what to look for as well as knowing that others struggle too. The book covers creating  rules, routines, reasonable punishments and when to punish, as well as how this type of relationship can help create a powerful bond between two people. Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long […]