Daily Archives: August 25, 2013


How To Negotiate a Scene 3 comments

How To Negotiate a Scene I am going to approach this from the standpoint that two people be they top/bottom, dominant/submissive, sadist/masochist, or whatever term you are comfortable and identify with have already gotten to know each other to some extent. I do not condone any type of play or power exchange between two people who have just met. So… you have been going to munches and have met someone of interest, you have had an online relationship for a few months and are ready to meet in person, or you have a desire to learn about or experience some type of play and have been introduced to someone in the community who is skilled and trusted. Now what? Questions asked by the top: Where can’t I touch you on your body? – This simple question will save both parties a hell of a lot of grief. Not where can I touch you, […]