Equality Not Dominance
I had planned on writing about dominance, it’s something that is a very part of me. It effect my relationships, it makes me feel settled, it’s both who and what I am. The thing is, even with all that, it pales in comparison with my desire to be equal. I make all the decisions in my home and in my marriage, yes I said marriage, but it’s that very thing that I cannot control and it hurts in a way I can’t really describe. I love my wife. I cherish her, promise to be faithful, promise to be by her side in good times and bad. We said the words in front of our friends, exchanged rings, did a sand ceremony, and then I also collared her. It was an incredible day and event that joined us forever, but our joining has a big hole. Now Beauty is my wife […]