In the near future I will be starting up a sort of Dear Abbey/Miss Manners advice column for questions about BDSM kinks, play, and relationships. I don’t claim to know all by any means, but have been active in kink for over ten years and am involved in my local kink community. I am still learning, and I have good resources in the way of a network of people who know a lot about various different BDSM subjects.
I’d like to open this up so people can reach out and ask things without fear of discovery or ridicule. It is possible that I will use the letters and questions in a non fiction BDSM book in the future. Of course I would seek permission from those who ask me and people will stay anonymous. So I’d love to hear from people. … When I get the Ask Jolynn part working right.