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Over The Knee Anthology ~ In The Eyes of The Law: Ashe Barker

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Over The Knee Anthology ~ In The Eyes of The Law: Ashe Barker Hi there and thank you so much for inviting me over to your blog today to give a shout out about the Over The Knee anthology, six wonderful, wicked tales of spanking and submission. The collection is a smokin’ hot anthology of spankingly awesome short stories, over a hundred thousand words of sizzling naughtiness ready to melt your kindle. It’ll be a real treat for the spank-lovers among us. I’m so thrilled to have a story in the set, and I’m in fabulous company too snuggled up with Lily Harlem, Lucy Felthouse, Katy Swann, Dolly Watt, and Wendi Zwaduk. In the Eyes of the Law is my story in the anthology. Libby, an accidental shoplifter, finds herself facing the full weight of the law in the form of the shopping mall head of security who just happens […]

Elust #74 Is Here! #SexBloggers

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Photo courtesy of Switch Studies Welcome to Elust #74 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #75? Start with the rules, come back October 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Machine She wanted to let the light in… Reflections on the Male Nude   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Trudy Is it play acting? ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Can a Woman be a Good Mother and Write a Sex Blog All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs […]

Elust #73 Is Here! #SexBloggers

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Photo courtesy of HT Honey Welcome to Elust #73 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #74? Start with the rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ My shame Has E L James broken erotica? Sex Addiction is a Scam ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Goodbye, I’m Gone sharing my inspiration ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Eroticon 2015 Pay it forward All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is […]

H is for Hairbrush #SpankA2Z 4 comments

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The hairbrush is brought to you by the letter H. H is for Hairbrush – The simple hairbrush with its hard smooth wood is an amazingly powerful thing. It can make a pout disappear in less than a second. It can turn the creamiest of smooth white flesh a lovely scarlet without much effort. It can make my ever so sleepy wife leap out of bed and suddenly have all the energy she needs to get her chores done. And, it can set even the most petulant of submissives back to right with only ten hard swats. Okay, that last can vary, but it doesn’t take much. Oh how I love my beautiful, polished, cherry, black bristled hairbrush. Beauty on the other hand doesn’t feel the love. I guess it’s a matter of taste. Your mileage may vary as well. Go get spanked at the other blogs on the hop.

Things I Need From You as My Submissive 17 comments

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This is a wonderful post. It is reposted with permission by: Author: Dr Dexter — [email protected] Source: https://fetlife.com/users/237461/posts/1285187 Things I Need From you as My Submissive I need you to feel safe. I need you to let go of your wants and desires, and know that I will to do what is best for you, when you give up control. I need your trust. I don’t expect you to give it blindly – I expect to earn it. But without trust, you cannot surrender. Without surrender, you cannot grow. I need you to feel secure. I need you to know that I’m not going to break your self-image without making sure that I build it back up stronger than before. I need you to accept comfort. Sometimes you may crumble. I will be there to pick up the pieces, and to pet you as we continue on. I need you […]

Why spanking is One of My Kinks 1 comment

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   Why Spanking is One of My Kinks There are a thousand and one different kinks out there. People enjoy a vast variety of things that are considered fetishes. Some include inflicting pain, some are more sensual, and some involve no contact at all. I’m a dominant and a sadist, so hands on play where I am in complete control is my preference. I enjoy flogging, caning, playing with sharp and pointies, electric play, and a few others to varying degrees of sensation on my partner, but even with that long list, spanking is one of my favorites. Why do I enjoy spanking so much? I love it because the one simple act can be many things. My favorite type of spanking is the intimate kind. Both my wife and I are comfortable when we do this kind of spanking. I sit propped up with pillows in the center of […]

A Submissive’s Point of View 3 comments

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I saw this picture and statement a few days ago, posted by Michael Makai, and immediately loved it. In fact, I changed my avatar on Fetlife to this picture. I’ve read it over a number of times and have identified with it very strongly, but there is always a moment of pause because the part about being so damn good at it is really quite presumptuous. This train of thought sent me on a search to find out just what submissives think makes a great dominant, not what we dominants think makes us good. I know I have preached to my readers about how it isn’t easy to be dominant. I’ve listed a code of ethics, I’ve talked about not being selfish or thinking it’s all about you, but all of that has come from my own point of view, not that of someone who wears the shoe on the […]

From The Mailbag 2 comments

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From The Mailbag I received the following question from Chris, and thought it would make a good topic for my Saturday post. hi my name is chris, my gf likes pain and the whole bdsm concept, but im not sure on how to go about fulfilling that fantasy of hers. do u have any inexpensive (or slightly more expensive) tricks to spice things up in the bedroom? The first thing that is of importance is whether she finds the pain AND the power exchange appealing or if she just finds getting spanked delicious. Your approach to fulfilling her fantasy depends on what she finds fantasy worthy. As always, I advise that communicating is what should happen first. Find out if she likes the idea of you being the disciplinarian. The stern figure who will punish her because she really needs it and craves the control, or if she likes funishment spankings or […]

Why Dominant? 3 comments

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Here is the post I promised those who have been following my informative yet kinky Saturday BDSM posts. I want to address the whys of dominance while at the same time hopefully answer some questions people who are just starting out might have. I’m also speaking about dominance because the poll showed that dominance and submission were the most wanted topics. As I’ve said before, when I first started to realize that the thoughts I was having about punishment and spanking were shared by others, I thought I was submissive. I think it had something to do with the fact that I wanted to be on the receiving end and therefore couldn’t be in the dominant role. The fact that I was always the person in control in my romantic relationships didn’t occur to me. My boyfriends weren’t meek or anything, they just wanted to please me, and I have […]