punishment


I is for Ice #SpankA2Z 4 comments

I is for Ice –   He called her to come back to him, her corner time at an end. Angie quickly reached up to swipe at her eyes, a last shred of pride making her wish to hide the tears her punishment had caused. The act was more automatic than anything else, for Alex was well aware of her tears, and Angie’s sniffling was a testament to them, even if she scrubbed the last traces away. She went and knelt before him, head bowed, heart aching, wanting nothing more than to wrap her arms around his legs and tell him again that she was sorry. The pride left inside didn’t blind her to the fact that she’d gone back on her word to honor and obey all the rules he’d set forth. His hand tilted her face up, the light spilling in from the open bathroom door illuminated her […]


Why spanking is One of My Kinks 1 comment

   Why Spanking is One of My Kinks There are a thousand and one different kinks out there. People enjoy a vast variety of things that are considered fetishes. Some include inflicting pain, some are more sensual, and some involve no contact at all. I’m a dominant and a sadist, so hands on play where I am in complete control is my preference. I enjoy flogging, caning, playing with sharp and pointies, electric play, and a few others to varying degrees of sensation on my partner, but even with that long list, spanking is one of my favorites. Why do I enjoy spanking so much? I love it because the one simple act can be many things. My favorite type of spanking is the intimate kind. Both my wife and I are comfortable when we do this kind of spanking. I sit propped up with pillows in the center of […]


Saturday’s Topic… Punishment vs Funishment Spanking

The topic of spanking keeps popping up in the search box, and that tells me my readers are seeking more information on the subject of spanking. Tomorrow I will discuss the difference between punishment and funishment spanking, implements, positions, and the big difference in general between spanking for fun and spanking for discipline.


Something from the Mailbag

Something from the Mailbag I have a question from Jean about BDSM. I decided to post this here so more of you would see it. I also want to encourage others to go ahead and ask if you have something on your mind. Jean asks: My question is about my past few experiences with my husband involving bdsm. The first experience I pretty much did what he required of me. Without having done any real reading about it, it remained loving and disciplined. On to the next I experienced a very real desire to test him openly. Breaking rules, etc. It was very easy for me to realize that in my mind, it was a mind game. I felt I was getting what I wanted in the first place and that these rules were not sufficient. So, I egged him on. If a rule was made, it became my next […]