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Elust #84 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of A to sub-Bee Welcome to Elust #84 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #85 Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Lightweight About Those “Apple Thighs” Why the Hell Haven’t I Rebelled Yet?   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ IDENTITY – hiding the evidence friday flash–service   ~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ Good In Bed *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is […]


Elust #83 Is Here! #SexBloggers 1 comment

Photo courtesy of Holden and Camille Welcome to Elust #83 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #84 Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ London Crows and London Kisses I am Her. She is Me. You Say You Want to Cook for Me   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Unusual Liaison Community. Respect. Friendship. Fucking. ~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ Dirty Little Secrets *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 […]


Elust #82 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Teachers Have Sex Welcome to Elust #82 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #83 Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Take Me How Do I Love Thee:On Comparing Relationships Asking all the questions…     ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Erotic Fiction: Fishnet Queen I Manage My Expectations ~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Wanna Have Sex With Me? – Here’s how All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs […]


Elust #81 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of A Dissolute Life Means Welcome to Elust #81 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #82 Start with the rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Who Are You Calling Crazy Cat Lady? Stranger on a Train Taking Emilia   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ The Sign Everyday sexism ~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* The Best Sex All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and […]


We’ve Got Friends in Low Places 5 comments

  We’ve Got Friends in Low Places On Sept. 23rd of 2017, I will be officially retired from 30 years in my career or ‘regular’ job, and will become a writer and kink educator full time. I counted the days, really I did. I brought up the calendar and sat like a kid counting the days left before Christmas, because my retirement will be like Christmas, a birthday, summer vacation, and spring break rolled up into a spectacular day to celebrate. It isn’t that I hate my job, I just am ready to be done after 30 years. It’s time to move onto other interests and write full time, so 09/23/2017 is D-day. Along with my retirement will come a move to another state with a milder climate. Wisconsin gets way to cold, and frankly Beauty and I have had enough of the snow. We’ve also had enough of the […]


Elust #79 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Marie Opens Up Welcome to Elust #79 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #80? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ The Joy of Sucking Cock Making Porn My Valentine ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ The One Midweek Fantasizing – The Portrait ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Marionette All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the […]


Elust #78 #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Malin James Welcome to Elust #78 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #79? Start with the rules, come back February 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ £10.53 Balance of Light Advent Calendar 2015 – Day 24 ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Why Sex Fiction? On using him ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* Guest blog: ‘Quite Delightful’, James Deen and me All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is […]


Consent, Age, and Personal Views

 Consent, Age, and Personal Views As most of us who are active in kink know, consent is EVERYTHING! I do not touch or become dominant towards anyone who has not verbally invited me to, has answered the question “Where can’t I touch you?” and has given consent to use a specified implement or have a play session involving X, Y, and Z. I also review the color system for play meaning green for keep going or more, yellow for I’m reaching the top of my tolerance, and red for stop right this second. In my book, only those who are able to make that sort of decision can only give consent. Be it a young age, a lack of being able to communicate because of a language barrier, being incapacitate by drugs or alcohol, not being human, still being in subspace from previous play, or not being able to repeat […]


Elust #76 Is Here! #SexBloggers

Photo courtesy of Charlie in the Pool Welcome to Elust #76 – The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #75? Start with the rules, come back November 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Sex and the post-birth vagina Lonely Things Just the two of us   ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Tiny, shiny, bity snaps of steel… I have fallen in and out of love with myself   ~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* I had An Abortion All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest […]